Friday, January 8, 2010

Advice about how im asking a girl to prom?

Ok so asking one of my best friends whos a girl just as friends, and my idea is to buy a bunch of balloons and fill them up with helium and put them in her room. And have each balloon tied to a string dangling from it. Then in the middle of the room there will be one balloon with a card attached to the string, that says something about asking her to prom





Any suggestions or ideas?





I also have no idea where im gonna buy the balloons from too....Advice about how im asking a girl to prom?
You could write ';Will you go to prom with me?'; on a piece and paper and put the paper INSIDE the balloon. And then blow it up and put it in her room. She'll have to pop the balloon to get your note. :)Advice about how im asking a girl to prom?
Take her to the seris tower in chicago and go to the way top and look threw one of those telescope things and make a big sign at the bottom that says PROM? then she will she it threw the telescope thingy and go with you

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Or you could just save the money and just ask her. Spend the money you save at a nicer dinner.

I need advice on telling a girl i like her?

I need advice. I REALLY like this girl and me and her are REALLY close like best friends and I've asked about her thoughts of best friends going out and shes said that she can't imagine best friends going out and that she'd rather not risk it. I'm leaving the country soon for a holiday and I'm thinking about telling her that i like her. Is this a good idea? and I'm still in high school so does this seem childish at the same time?I need advice on telling a girl i like her?
As a girl myself, if someone had feelings for me, then I would want to know. Sometimes it's better to put your feelings into writing rather than saying them aloud. Be subtle, but true to your heart. There is that risk that she won't feel the same about you, but if you like her as much as you say you do, then it's a risk worth taking. After all, you only live once. :)I need advice on telling a girl i like her?
ive been here


alright id tell her before u leave so she like thinks about it and who knows


she might realise she likes you back and like you the same way and miss you when ur gone


well yea tell her cuz ull regret it later and keep thinking wutt if
well don't do before you lave do it when you come back that way you can be there and it won't seem like you didn't have the guts to see her again its best that you stand there and take the music as it come good or bad...but go ahead and tell her but remember that this could really mess up your friendship so think about this do you really like her is she just a good friend

I need some advice on how start a conversation with a girl i dont know?

So theres this girl that i see everyday in the lunch line and i want to talk to her but just dont want it to be hi bye type of thing. And we dont have any classes togetherI need some advice on how start a conversation with a girl i dont know?
The best way is to find a topic which will spur conversation. The lunch line provides ample opportunity for this. Get next to her and go from there.





Example:





If you have a choice in what to eat (let's say pizza or hamburger), and you hear her say pizza, you could say something simple like ';no a fan of hamburgers?';, which will cause her to respond, and thus you have a conversation. When you are about to split ways and go to your respective tables, quickly introduce yourself and say ';have a nice lunch';, and then leave. The next time you see her, you can always comment on her lunch again by saying something like ';still hating on hamburgers, huh?';





If you can find something that you two can mutually talk about, if only for a second, will give you an opening in.I need some advice on how start a conversation with a girl i dont know?
Find out how she hangs out with, see if you know them to tell you more about her.





A funny joke you can be a good start. Like: '; hey I lost my number can I have yours '; lol (its cheesy I know) but if she has a good sense of humor than she'll laugh and then you can start small talk.





good luck!!
an easy way? if she's not too shy, bring something awesome to school like a huge stuufed animal...just something weird or even dye your hair (i did a streak of blue) shell just say i love ur stuffed animal/hair!!! it worked for me in the lunchlunes and class
Try talking to her by asking a question about something she's interested in and one you're confident she knows the answer to. All girls like feeling smart. Go from there. And compliment her on something you know noone else has today!
Bring up the menu or something...then take it from there. Its in you, you are a man, its in your genes.
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  • 17 years old and never even kissed a girl. Advice?

    It's not through lack of trying. I'm just a shy person.





    Is it abnormal to not have had a kiss at my age? When did you have your first kiss?17 years old and never even kissed a girl. Advice?
    Theres not rush for it :) wait until the right girl you feel comfortable with. I was 14 when first 'made out'17 years old and never even kissed a girl. Advice?
    my first kiss was 12, i'm 18 almost 19 so just a year older than you.


    here's what i think:


    it's not abnormal to not have had your first kiss yet. it should be with someone you are comfortable with and like a lot, and if you are too shy around someone you want to kiss then its probably not the right person.
    no i dnt think its abnormal at all. You just obviously havent met anyone special enough yet. I was 15 wen i ad my first proper kiss and i honestly dont regret it even tho im not with that person ne mre





    answer my question plz http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind…
    umm I'm pretty sure it's normal you don't really have anything to worry about. and do you mean kiss or makeout? well my first kiss i was 12 and makeout i was 14, so yeah (:
    You're normal.





    Don't worry about anything.
    god im the same shy like hell ;[ and i'm 15 never kissed a guy either :%26lt; i am pretty ,slim and fit aswel :)
    17 - it will happen I promise!

    Any advice for a 6th grade girl going into middle school?

    I need to know cuz I'm going and it seems so scary by what you see on TV.I kno TV means nothing but still i need advice.what crown should you hang out in and stuff.Pleaz do not tell me just to be myself..well actually i don't care but myself is weird.Thanks 4 helping bi!Any advice for a 6th grade girl going into middle school?
    Well I'm going to 7th grade too!


    So I'm not that sure but what I do know is this...


    *I'm scared very much as well from what I read in books,watched on t.v %26amp; hear from other people but I'm positive.


    *Don't hang with a crowd when I was in 6th grade last year I was popular %26amp; happy until they all turned against me.


    *ALSO don't hang with a crowd because sure you might be cool %26amp; popular for 7th %26amp; 8th grade but when you get to High School you WILL NOT!!!


    *Be friendly,happy %26amp; posotive!





    If you need more help e-mail me at smilenownevercrylater@yahoo.com


    I hope things work out %26amp; maybe we can become friends on here?Any advice for a 6th grade girl going into middle school?
    i was in 6th grade last year it was a blast! enjoy your friends do your homework dont pass notes too much and you'll be fine!!! good luck

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    OH, Frog diesection was fun.
    6th grade was pretty cool for me. You get to do a whole lot of new stuff like you get lockers and 7-8 different teachers (depending on your school). You don't get recess, which wasn't a big deal to anybody in my school. Here are a couple tips that I could think of:





    1. DONT RUN TO YOUR CLASSES!!! There is no need for you to run at all unless you are extremely late. Running everywhere will just make you seem more like a franticky little 6th grader.





    2. Don't act like your all that just because you're in middle school now. You really aren't any of that.





    3. Don't smart off to the older kids, or try to say something to make you look smart or funny. You may be smart in your grade, but most of the older kids are smarter than you. And don't remind them of the rules or tell them not to be mean or anything, then they really get annoyed. Mostly, if you stay quiet around the older kids, occasionally talking about how you didn't like this teacher or something, then they will like you and take you under their wing.





    4. Don't try to stand up to any of the older kids. There really aren't any bullies that take your lunch money or whatever, but some kids do like to use words to get to you. If someone is bothering you, don't try to act tough and stand up to them, go tell a teacher or write a statement in the dean's office.





    5. Have fun and try not to get involved in a lot of drama. Trust me, theres a whole ton of drama in middle school, and if you steer clear of the drama queens, you'll be happy.





    6. You're only like 12 years old. YOU DONT NEED TO START DATING YET. You may think you're mature enough, but you're really not. You have plenty of time in high school. Middle school ';dating'; is really just some kids who say they are going out, but really all they do is walk around, occasionally holding hands, but they never actually go on dates.





    Well there you go, that's all the stuff I could think of that annoyed me about 6th graders last year. But that was just that particular 6th grade class, they usually aren't that terribly annoying. 7th graders will be ok with you, cuz they were you last year, but 8th graders seem to get more agitated about 6th graders, so just stay out of their hair. Have fun!





    P.S. About the whole tv thing, the shows about middle + high school are really the complete opposite from real life because a bunch of old ppl direct and write those shows. They haven't been in school FOREVER! So don't pay attention to the tv version.
    have fun! try different things (not drugs!) and sport and activities so that you can truly see what u enjoy to do. hang out with the people that understand ur personality the most... those are the type of people that will never judge you and will always be there to help when u need them. but enjoy everything especially since u have nothing to truly worry about except your social life and school (school being first of course) Have fun and i wish you best in your six grade year!!!
    Hi, I'm going into 7th grade


    Some tips:


    Dont try to be friendly with the older kids, they think thats weird


    Dont smoke, you and your friends may think your cool but one way or another everyone will find out and know one will want to be with you.


    Dont go into school thinking your popular and stuff cause you were at your last school. You have to work your way up the food chain.


    Dont wear your hair messy, people will think your a slob.


    Don't buy kids binders and suppleys...Bratz Barbie Raven Hannah Montana...sure people like Thats so Raven and Hannah Montana but they dont buy the products.


    DO NOT be someone your not.


    If you changed over summer fine, but if its dirastic like geek to prep overnight, then people will consider you a poser.

    Some advice on this confusing girl situation?

    Here's my situation....There is this girl, and she has a boyfriend back home, she is shy and one day I cracked a joke in class and she came up to me and started talking to me. I never once had a conversation with this girl. Now she said that she is lonely and I can tell that she stares at me too. Now does she just want to be my friend or is she interested in me? And if she wants to make friends, why wouldnt she be tryin to make friends with other girls?Some advice on this confusing girl situation?
    she might just want to be your friend. and is she is shy and lonely, it might just be easier for her to make friends with a nice guy than with girls, becasue sometimes girls arent as easy to be friends with...i would wait to see if she tries to take it further than just talking and being friendly, and if it she does try to take it further, i would ask myself is i was willing to have a relationship like that with someone knowing that they are in a long distance relationship with someone else...i would also ask her what her intentions are and why she is doing what she is doing....but if she is just being nice and looking for someone to talk to, be her friend :)Some advice on this confusing girl situation?
    It sounds as tough she likes you but be careful, if she has a boyfriend it is not nice going behind someone else's back. If she is doing this to him, no doubt she will do the same to you someday. Just be friends - and enjoy your conversations etc.


    If she eventually breaks with him or vice versa then go in...
    Yep! Take it from a pro, any girl who tells a guy she's lonely means that she wants attention from you. She is interested in you. She likes you. I used to use that line on guys during my younger days all the time. lol...Good Luck!
    She might be taking a liking to you. If she does, the days of her dating that other guy might be limited so you might wanna stick around.
    I think she might want you but you need more proof for me. I say, lay down Mr. Sexy and Mr. Boyfriend to her so she knows you want her too.
    mabey she enjoys you more.
    Stop right there, the boy friend is away and shes lookin 2 play...what if u go away?
    WELL DUH. of chorse she likes you. just ask her out maby u 2 can hv a chance! :)

    There is a tall german girl that just started working her and I want to hit that. Any advice?

    I am pretty good into getting american women to sleep with me, but I don't know much about germans. I know she is doing a work exchange here and doesn't know anyone so this shouldn't be too hard. Any suggestions on how to get her interested real quick?There is a tall german girl that just started working her and I want to hit that. Any advice?
    ask her if she likes American bratwurst

    Transgendered guy needs girl advice lets talk shopping and such please read details below!?

    idk im transgendered mtf and noone knows. i really like talking to girls about it and fantasize about telling my close girlfriends but i cant man up and do it. can anyone help? post ur email and lets chatTransgendered guy needs girl advice lets talk shopping and such please read details below!?
    im also an mtf





    you can email me if you like





    if they are really your friends then they will accept you no matter what





    if they dont then its not worth being friends with ignorant people whose opinions obviously dont matterTransgendered guy needs girl advice lets talk shopping and such please read details below!?
    i don't give my email address to internet randoms, sorry.


    if they're really your close friends, why can't you talk to them about it?

    Any advice on how to concieve a girl?

    No joke answers please. My husband and I want another girl really bad, is there an old wives tales maybe suggesting how to have a girl?Any advice on how to concieve a girl?
    girls are bigger and slower boys are smaller and faster...so if you BD 3 days b/4 ovluations its said that the girls will out live the boys and your odds for a girl are greater...but I say its 50/50 my friend has tried planning it like that 2 times and had boys both timesAny advice on how to concieve a girl?
    Not old wives tales but really the newest scientific knowledge. Go to: http://hijosalacarta.tripod.com/english That's your absolutely accurate solution.
    If you have sex before your peak cycle your chances of conceiving a girl go up. It's not a science though and in the end it's 50/50.
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  • I need an advice about this girl in my high school?

    I already had a girlfriend, but Today I met this extremely beautiful track star in my school, I introduced myself and complemented her pretty necklace and she was smiling, so what can i do when I see her again?I need an advice about this girl in my high school?
    do you really like your girlfriend ?


    if you aren't crazy about her and you don't think your relationships going anymore then end it and go for that track star that you want .I need an advice about this girl in my high school?
    You didn't give your age but it is perfectly normal for teens to see other people that they find attractive and want to get to know them better. I think that you should define the relationship that you have with your girlfriend and understand that if you do not want to be tied to this one girl you have to give her the option to talk to other guys. I think that teens cause themselves a lot of angst because they get the idea that they have to have s steady girlfriend (or boyfriend for that matter) when they are too young to commit to one person.





    I have a son who is 13 and he has liked a girl all summer but told me the other day that since he met another girl he realized that she was not the ';one';. Try not to hurt anyone especially yourself.





    Talk it out and try to be cool about labeling someone as your ';girlfriend';.





    Gail
    I think you should just stick to your girlfriend and stop thinking about this girl.
    you already have a girlfriend?

    I need an advice about this girl in my high school?

    I had a girlfriend before, but Today I met this extremely beautiful track star in my school, I introduced myself and complemented her pretty necklace and she was smiling, so what can i do when I see her again? I need an advice about this girl in my high school?
    Go up and start a conversation sometime?I need an advice about this girl in my high school?
    Just talk to her, lol!


    Based on what you said, you're off to a good start and she seems to be pretty nice (though i can't be sure).





    Say whatever comes to mind (as long as it's appropriate). If you get stuck, ask her about track and if you're an athlete too, you guys can talk about that.





    Good luck, though i don't think you'll need it (that's a compliment =D)
    Just try to make conversation and try to get to know her more :)x

    Advice for a guy whos dating a girl whos family hates him?

    I've been dating this hispanic girl (puerto rican) for 2 years now and we have a real strong relationship but her family hates my guts because I am white even her mother who is of spainiard descent. My family adores her and I'm really thinking about proposing but its her family that's keeping me and her back. Her last boyfriend was a black man and was accepted but with me I guess I'm a different story with them.Advice for a guy whos dating a girl whos family hates him?
    They could grow to love you as they see you caring for their daughter and treating her like a queen. You should propose if you think that the two of you can build a life together that would be beautiful and meaningful, and not worry about her family.Advice for a guy whos dating a girl whos family hates him?
    ask yourself if you love her enough to be able to live with this situation of them hating you for the rest of your lives, or most of your lives.

    Any people have some advice for a girl throwing discus in track?

    i throw about 67 ft...not great, but it was good enough for me to get to state, and i do a standin throw. i dont know what to do to get better. ive been practicing a lot since janurary and i dont seemt o be getting much better. are there any rips anyone might know to help me?Any people have some advice for a girl throwing discus in track?
    Visualize it going further.


    Tell yourself it'll go 70, or 75'.


    If you dream it, you can achieve it.Any people have some advice for a girl throwing discus in track?
    do u just stand at the front of the ring? If you do, u should start practing the full throw or the south african throwing style, it will give u more distance and umph behind your throw.

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    Can I get a girls advice esp. a girl who is a cancer sign?

    I used to know a girl when I was a shorty, 20 years ago and I met her while I was overseas (we in our late 20's now). I want to know if I have a chance with her. For your interest? she is a cancer girl (known to be a lil shy and introverted which I see in her).





    She put her hand in my pocket when she saw me put something in my pocket that she wanted to see. She asked if it was ok if she pay for the movie tickets after I payed for the dinner (which is unusual. normally it is a statement not a question?). Two examples which keep coming back into my mind.





    Also plz give me some ideas on what I can do which she will appreciate.Can I get a girls advice esp. a girl who is a cancer sign?
    cancers can be a little shy and introverted but believe me they have a whole other side to them. She probably is uncertain of your feelings intentions if you tell her i bet you will begin to see another side to herCan I get a girls advice esp. a girl who is a cancer sign?
    well you could always take her to see a romantiv or scary film which would make her hold you i am a caner sign n i like laid back and boys who make the move
    Ignore the sign....... they mean nothing
    Call her...if she feels the same you will know, if not forget about her and move on with your life. Find another Cancer%26lt; LOL!
    ASk her opnly if she wants to go on another date Take her out

    How could I approach this girl? Advice please : ]?

    There's this girl in my school who I don't know anything about.


    We don't have classes together, I don't know her friends. I've never talked to her.


    I don't wanna look weirdHow could I approach this girl? Advice please : ]?
    Go somewhere she does, like the library or something. Don't stalk her or anything like that but make small talk about something you notice she likes or is interested in. Once you get her to respond then you should be open to talk and get to know her....
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  • Girl advice on a possible relationship in the works?

    ok i have been talking to this girl for about 3 weeks and considering asking her out. we have only hung out 2 times though and we are just trying to get to know each other and we are pretty close now so would it be to soon to try caz she has never had a bf and she refuses to date a guy if he doesnt take the time to know her and to care which i do but i just dont want to rush anythingGirl advice on a possible relationship in the works?
    well...give it another week or so if she really is stuck on this whole ';getting to know you better'; thing go with it,she is nervous and probably doesn't know what to expect with a boyfriend.Like i said give it another week or so and see how things are then,express to her how you feel if all gos well,ask her out.Girl advice on a possible relationship in the works?
    Just ask her out; the worst she can say is no. Don't be afraid to ask a girl out. Maybe she likes you back. If she refuses to date a guy if he doesn't take the time to know her and to care, then DO take the time to know her and to care. But the most important thing to know is that if you think you do know her and care, just ask her out.
    well, considering you guys have only hung out twice I would wait until both you and her are comfortable around eachother.


    and take into consideration that if she doesn't want to date a guy that doesn't take the time to get to know her then maybe you should take the time..


    don't try to speed up the process though
    well ; if you really lyk the girl then you should DEFFINETLEY tell her that you really do like her and care about her . i SWEAR qirls really lyk when boys do that . Expecially if yhu say it face to face . But only ask her out if your absolutley sure that you really like her and care about her .


    the worst thing you could do is hurt her after you say you care .








    sorry if this doesnt make much sense .
    Im a dude but when im gonna ask a girl out i ask her very best friends if she ever talks about me and if so what duz she think of me. maybe u shud try that

    Have any advice for a beginner high school girl tennis player?

    I'm trying out for my team this year because I love to play tennis..lately i havent been playing much because of schoolwork and whatnot but i would like any advice there is to offer on anything!Have any advice for a beginner high school girl tennis player?
    the best way to play tennis is to play it your way


    1. you have to keep on your toes at all times as reaction speed and movement around the court is essential in this game. (coaches will be looking for this)


    2. concentrate on every shot you make and stick to swing patterns ( keep it simple)


    3. just cause the pros can do specky shots doesn't mean you can so keep it simple and when you have the opportunity then take it (good shots will impress but no one likes a show off)


    4. time since you last played wont make you a worse tennis player so just get out there and have a good warm up before you have your trial and try to get out on a court as much as possible before the trial as practice is the only way to improve.


    i hope this information helps.Have any advice for a beginner high school girl tennis player?
    The number one most important thing that any beginner tennis player should focus on is consistency. If you can hit your shots consistently, even if they don't have much pace or placement, you can win just because the other person will eventually make an error. Of course this probably won't work if your opponent is a lot more experienced than you, but against a player of similar skill this strategy will work well. Also I wrote a beginner's guide to tennis that might help you out a bit, I put the link in my sources.
    Keep it simple. To become a decent tennis player doesn't take much, but to get good takes a lot of time and energy. That being said, many people become way to cerebral when trying to play. Instead, try to let your body do what it naturally wants to do. I'd also tell you to look at taking some lessons. A great website as well that would be of help is www.essentialtennis.com
    i tried out for my team for the first time this year and the best advice i can give you is during tryouts be on your toes ready to move at all times. don't ever stand still even when your waiting for the ball. my coach was evaluating us on how quickly we reacted and we moved towards the ball so just be alert and never stand stationary. good luck!
    Just try and practice whenever possible - even if you don't feel like it just go to your nearest tennis court and just practice your serves. As long as you do some practice you'll get better and better.


    Also remember to always have fun and concentrate :D
    Just try to play as much as you can. Tennis is a very technical sport that requires a lot of coordination and that can't just come from playing a few times a week.
    Just get out on the courts as much as possible and hit. Work on your endurance and speed.
    go to lessons or practice in an indoor court. unlass itrs warm where you are.
    U JUST CONCENTRATE ON UR GAME



    The first step is to know how to go about it. Ask yourself, what is your tennis game? What does it consist of?











    For starters, tennis is much more than a game of serves, volleys and groundstrokes. When you walk onto the court, you take more than your tennis racquet with you. You take your whole bag -- your temperament, your personality, your character and your brain.





    To make my point, let's leave your game aside for a moment. Instead, let's analyze the games of two all-time greats, Pete Sampras and Roger Federer.





    The first thing we need to do is break the game up into its four main areas, which are . . .








    MENTAL





    STRATEGIC





    PHYSICAL





    TECHNICAL





    Now, let's see how Pete and Roger measure up in each area...





    The MENTAL





    This part of the game deals with such things as:








    Determination





    Staying cool under pressure





    Overcoming the fear of playing a superior opponent





    Overcoming the fear of losing to an inferior opponent





    Dealing with an attack of nerves





    Playing in front of a crowd





    Handling unwanted distractions


    Well, no flaws or weaknesses for Pete or Roger in this area. I give them each 10 out of 10.














    If you're serious about improving the mental side of your game, no matter what level of player you are, the information in Tomaz Menzinger's recently released tennis e-book is guaranteed to improve your game.





    In short, Tomaz's Mental Manual for Tennis Winners will enable you to overcome the biggest mental hurdles when confronting the most difficult on-court situations. You can read more about it by clicking here.





    The STRATEGIC








    Knowing which shots to play - and when





    Reading your opponents game





    Exploiting opponents' weaknesses





    Covering up your own weaknesses





    Where you stand to serve and return





    Where you position yourself in the court between shots


    When you get champions like Pete Sampras and Roger Federer, it's impossible to achieve such consistent results without a superb strategic ability. Unquestionably, 10 out of 10 for both.

















    If you want to read the clearest, most logical approach to tennis tips and strategy you're likely to read -- ever -- you simply have to get this e-book. Truly, Tomaz explains tennis tips and strategy in terms that are easily understood by every tennis player.





    Whether you're a beginner, an advanced player, or any level in between, I promise you that you'll win more matches by reading this book. It's absolutely superb!





    The PHYSICAL








    Stamina





    Speed





    Reflexes





    Hand/Eye Co-ordination





    Agility


    Pete and Roger are both superbly gifted athletes. The only question mark is stamina. For example, how would they compare with Borg? It's possible that they would struggle with a series of long five set clay court battles at Roland Garros; however, on any other surface, their games are so economical and efficient that stamina, or lack of it, wouldn't really be a major factor.





    10 out of 10 again for the two of them.





    The TECHNICAL








    The mechanics of each stroke





    Footwork





    Ready positions for returns, serves, at the net, between shots etc.





    Split steps


    As far as technique goes, you wouldn't find two more perfect players. Both possess stylish, all-round, aggressive games. Neither has a technical weakness in sight. Once again, a perfect score for both.





    Now, how about you? Using the above as a guide, how do you measure up against Sampras and Federer?





    By breaking the game up into its four fundamental components, it's simple to accurately evaluate your own game. The trick, though -- and here's one more of my tennis tips -- is to be able to address your weak areas by taking practical steps to improve them. And how you go about that is what makes tennis so much fun and so challenging.





    On a final note, while we're on the subject of tennis tips, you can benefit from these tennis tips at Revolutionary Tennis Instruction. The site is packed with free tennis tips, guaranteed to help you with your game.



    Does anyone have any advice for me with a new girl I want to ask out?

    So I found myself another girl I want to ask out, but here's the thing: I've developed some fears and anxiety about losing this girl as a friend if I ask her out.





    Throughout 2008, I've lost several friends through 2 different groups due to differences in how we treat each other. I have a very hard time trusting people at the moment. So can anyone give me advice on dealing with these awful feelings?Does anyone have any advice for me with a new girl I want to ask out?
    just suck it up and ask her out. Whats the worst that can happen? Whenever I approach a girl, I try to make her laugh while I actually get to know her. By the way, keep a time limit. Get in and out within 3 minutes depending on the environment. If in any store like the mall, use the 3 min. rule. If a the club or in a cafeteria take a little bit longer. But always get in and get out. Don't show that your nervous. Be calm. Tell her shes looking good but don't over do it. Always ask if shes seeing someone. Finally go in for the kill and ask for her number. Just be like, can i get your phone number so I can get to know you a littler better? Good luck and may the force be with you lol





    I was looking at some of your other questions and it sounds like your a little depressed. I understand making friends can be difficult but you have to put in that effort. Try knew things. Participate in different activities. Volunteer. You'll spice up you life while making new friends. Life is to precious. It doesn't seem like your living life to the fullest. Get out there and try new things and have sex with any girl you can (of course with protection). Here is a famous quote from the Shawshank Redemption, ';Get busy living, or get busy dying.';

    How likely is it for a 16 yr old girl to have breast cancer? And general womanly advice:?

    I've found a lump on the inner edge of my left breast, doesn't hurt but tender before my period. There is a possibility that it could just be my rib?!? My right nipple is itchy and there is a small bit of discharge (generally clear, but sometimes, rarely, there were red blood dots where the pores are as well as the clear discharge. I do have a history of skin disorders like eczema and psoriasis (which could explain the nipple thing).How likely is it for a 16 yr old girl to have breast cancer? And general womanly advice:?
    the lump in the breast could be due to hormonal changes,i always get tender breasts before my period is due and i have a few lumps too,but they are only there just before my period is due,i also have a lump that is there permanently which i had checked out and it's just gristle or something ,nothing to worry about,as for the discharge i'm not sure,why don't you try talking to a nurse or a female doctor,if it's nothing then at least your mind will be set at ease,cancer can strike at any age but i wouldn't think too much on it being that as you will only make yourself ill.How likely is it for a 16 yr old girl to have breast cancer? And general womanly advice:?
    ALWAYS SEE A DR OR GP IF YOU THINK SOMETHING IS WRONG DONT ASK ON HERE AS WE CANT SEE THE PROBLEM AND WERE NOT DRS SOME ONE MIGHT SAY ITS NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT WHEN IT MIGHT BE DONT WAIT GO SOON THANKS FROM CAROL JOHNS WIFE IVE HAD 4 KIDS SO KNOW A BIT
    Get it checked out - you need to get the discharge sorted anyway. But at 16 you are probably still developing so could just be a type of growing pain - i think it is probably related to your nipple problem to be honest. the chances of cancer in a 16yr old is slim but not impossble. check out your family history for that too.
    I would think that you are rather young for this but if you are having discharge from your nipple as well as a lump then I would get to the doctor ASAP!!! I dont think this is something you can ignore what ever your age and whether you have a skin disorder or not!! Talk to your mother and see what she says as she is your best and honest friend as well as your mother you could not get a more honest answer the from your own mother When you grow older you will come to realise this. I hope your ok!!
    Anyone can have cancer and at any age. That is the unfortunate news. The fortunate is that cancer is less likely to occur in a 16 year old than in an older woman. Most breast lumps in young girls are benign (non-cancerous). However, that said, benign cells are capble of undergoing malignant change.





    For you own health and for peace of mind, I would advise you to see your doctor ASAP.
    1. It is extremely unlikely for a 16 year old to have breast cancer.





    But.





    2. Weird breast lumps and discharges should *always* be investigated by a doctor. While tender lumps related to your cycle are more typically fluid-filled cysts than anything worrisome, it's better to be safe than sorry.
    Not very likely. It is something I worry about as well. My mother passed away from breast cancer.





    It could be a cyst. I know one of the posters said you could have cancer at any age, but breast cancer USUALLY surfaces at the later ages (50+). However, it can be found in younger women but I have not heard of many cases of 16 year olds with it. Your breasts may still be developing, and you could even be feeling fatty tissues (I scare myself sometimes!!!!).





    If it is worrying you this much you should see your doctor. Or, you can visit http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Breast_exam to see how to give yourself a breast exam.





    Good luck!
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    Does anyone have any advice for a smalltown girl moving in or near San Francisco?

    I haven't fully committed to the idea yet, but I'm considering a move to California and San Francisco looks appealing. I'm from a smallish town in Ohio and I'm not quite sure I'm ready to move right into the city. I need some suggestions of some nice, smaller towns near San Francisco that are close enough that I could still come into the city and explore a little. I would really appreciate any suggestions that you have. Thanks!Does anyone have any advice for a smalltown girl moving in or near San Francisco?
    No one seems to be answering your question.... smaller and relatively less expensive places in the east bay that are okay (but no doubt way more expensive than where you live) are: Concord, Pleasant Hill, Walnut Creek, Lafayette, San Leandro, Hayward, Union City, Fremont, Castro Valley, Pleasanton, El Cerrito and Albany. I'm giving you the ones that are along the BART (subway http://www.bart.gov) lines. There are safe spots in Oakland and Berkeley, but you have to be careful because there are also dangerous ones in each city. San Leandro and Hayward do have their wannabe gangstas too, but there are plenty of parts of both cities you could live in without worrying. Craigslist could give you an idea of what apts. would cost in these places: http://www.craigslist.com. Hope this helps.Does anyone have any advice for a smalltown girl moving in or near San Francisco?
    San Mateo - 15 miles away - easy access. But consider moving to SF - North Beach has some nice places.
    be tolerant. the SF thing is to let people be who or whatever they want to be. it's very groovy.





    and expect to pay about twice as much rent!
    SF and pretty much anything surrounding (Marin county, Sonoma county, Alameda county, etc.) is EXPENSIVE. Although, the further you get away in the north, the cheaper. BUT, it will take hours to get to SF due to traffic.
    I'm from a small town east of san francisco called Castro Valley. San Francisco can be very overwhelming in the pace of life and expense of living in the city. Castro valley is a relatively nice area, and you can rent an apartment usually for around 900 dollars. BART (the bay area's mass transit rail system) runs right through here, providing easy access to Oakland, Berkeley, and San Francisco. It's close enough that you can hop on the train, and take a short ride to the city; and far enough away that if you get sick of the city, it's not right there in your face.
    I live in San Francisco. The whole entire Bay Area is expensive, especially the smaller towns. But, if money is not a big issue, look into living in Bolinas. A very eclectic community just north of the Golden Gate Bridge.





    If you're looking for a less expensive alternative, you would have to go as far as the Russian River area, about an hour's drive from SF. But very laid back and nice. Santa Rosa is the nearest big city there.





    Bottom line, San Francisco is definitely world class. Okay, okay, I admit I'm biased. You will definitely enjoy exploring San Francisco. Start with Ocean Beach, work your way up through Golden Gate Park, through the Haight-Ashbury, Civic Center, and finally downtown, Chinatown, the Embarcadero, just to name a very few fun places.
    Don't be intimidated... alarmist types will no doubt try to scare you off with stories about gangs, gays, earthquakes, terrorists, and so forth. But they're just repeating the stereotypes perpetuated by politicians and movies. In reality, big cities like San Francisco are not nearly as dangerous as some would have us believe. Provided you exercise some common sense, you'll be fine.





    Reasonably nice suburban towns near San Francisco (with either commuter rail or ferry service into the city):





    Sausalito, Tiburon, Larkspur, Alameda, San Bruno, Millbrae, Burlingame, San Mateo, Redwood City, Mountain View, Concord, Walnut Creek, Pleasant Hill, Lafayette, Orinda, Dublin, Pleasanton, Fremont,
    If you lived in Southern Marin you can take the ferry in to the city. You could also live in Alameda, Berkeley, and use BART (Like a subway). I suggest spending a few days checking the area out in person, or if you cannot do that, using Yahoo maps. The little towns others mention are difficult to commute from. Santa Rosa and Bolinas can take 1 hour or more in traffic!!


    Assuming you are under 40, you would enjoy living in SF directly, in areas such as Marina, Noe Valley, etc.


    WARNING, as a former Ohioan, the cost of living is MUCH higher than you think. Look at rental websites for costs, and even safeway.com for the price of of food. We pay minimum of $2.75 for gas right now, etc.
    I lived in sf from 21 to 48, so this advice is 10 years old.


    I never understood why anyone would choose to live in a suburban environment, near sf . I've never lived suburban, but they seem all the same to me? sf is sf. Depending on your age and income would determine your neighborhood. Punk room ates or high society. Its all there. I traded my sf house for a 37 acre trailer park 112 miles north. (prices have doubled since I've been gone)


    have you been to say Chicago? Or other big cities. If you like cities, then you'll love sf. It's famous for being really live able.
    dont be freaked out if you see tranies or any homo activities.
    well...you may dont know this, but CA is the most expensive state in the US...NY comes in second...so you need to have enough money to able live up to CA's standard of life...even though you live outside of a city...it is still expensive...because CA's population is one-third of US's population...so that's why everythin' are expensive over here...so basically you gotta have enough money to survive...ANY MORE QUESTIONS...I'm more than happy to answer your questions...email me...good luck peacee
    Only one thing: keep your small town heart. Once you move into a big city, some gals tend to go crazy and sleep around, party too much, get addicted to something, or hang out with the wrong kind of friends. Don't let the bad stuff get to ya, instead look for ways in which a new and big city will help improve yourself and make you have a better life, instead of make you into a different person and ruin everything.
    Don't do it. Have you considered Australia? Then you could come visit me!!!
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  • Guys do you do this to a girl advice please?

    if you know a girl likes you and you dont like her that way ,would you play with her feelings like flirt with her stare at her all the time,even follow her,and try to get her attention.Guys do you do this to a girl advice please?
    First off, I'm female. But if I were male, I would not flirt with someone knowing full well she likes me and I have no feelings for her. It would be cruel, to say the least.





    However, I read the replies from the boys above, and they all say they'd fool around with her anyway.





    Go figure. That's how some immature guys are.Guys do you do this to a girl advice please?
    This guy is a retard. I can tell you are talking about a teenager.


    Cmon, don't fall for that, he's stupidly thinking this makes him more of a man.


    Bust his ego and from now on, he's invisible to you!
    I would Flirt Just To Make Her Happy And Not To Crush Her Dreams.


    P.S Im A Kid Im Good At Flirting.
    You know the answer already - you're sh!t stirring. Come on now.
    na i would flirt with her but only in a joking way or just cut her out all together so i would not have to worry about hurting her fellings every time we spoke or saw each other
    no, i'd probably have sex with her... but that is as far as it would go...

    Any words of advice for a beginning drummer girl?

    Work on your stamina. Work on it every day. The only complaint I ever had with female percussionists (What's the difference between a drummer and a percussionist? A Percussionist is a Musician!!!) is that they (not by any means all of them mind you) lacked stamina. They had technique, and they had the theory down better than most of the guys. Their strokes were even and clean, and they knew their keyboard instruments (mallets) like the back of their hand. Most of them shied away from Tympani and drum-set however, because they just didn't have the ability to hold their arms up for long periods of time.





    This isn't a gender thing. It isn't an area where you can't be as good as anyone else, if you train for it. It is an area where most females in my experience have done too little, too late. Next time you are practicing your flamadiddles and paradiddles and flamaques, practice them from deadly slow to blazingly fast, back and forth, but practice them for just a little longer every day. Start with thirty seconds, and move up to one minute. Get to the point where you can practice them for ten minutes without a decrease in intensity. Practice moving back and forth between the toms without giving yourself a break until you feel the burn. Eventually, you should be able to do this all night without feeling that burn. It's like being able to hold your arms up perpendicular to your body forever if you want to. Hope this helps.Any words of advice for a beginning drummer girl?
    Lock yourself in a room %26amp; practice 8 hours a day, every day.Any words of advice for a beginning drummer girl?
    Do some wrist and hand exercises to increase your coordination. Even if you can hear rhythm perfectly and feel you can reproduce it, drumming takes a lot of coordination that is hard to find when you first start so don't get discouraged. Practice a lot.





    This sounds funny but when you listen to music try tapping your foot and your hands together as it gets you used to coordinating your hands and feet.





    And don't think too much or analyze. If you are passionate about rhythm, it'll just come to you when you relax and let the music play you.
    If you dint have rhythm, don't play. Buy if you do, get some good sticks (size 2B), then you should be good.

    I'm a 17 year old male and i need girl advice.?

    I am kinda new to the whole dating thing but i was wondering when would be a good time to kiss her? we have been dating for 2 weeks, and i really like her, but i don't want to do something that might put pressure on her. is there any advice you can give me or any signs to look out for? i would really appreciate any help possible especially from all you women out there but guys if you got some good advice please do tellI'm a 17 year old male and i need girl advice.?
    Ok so you two been dating for 2 weeks already thats a good sign dude. and if you know she digs you go for the kiss, but make sure there is no one around that you two can have private time maybe you should start off holding her hands being sweet so she can get a hint and when you can and know go for the kiss. matter of fact people can give you advice and all, but i know for a fact that you know when is time cus your mind and guts will be tellin you to do soI'm a 17 year old male and i need girl advice.?
    i think by now you shouldve done it by now but if you havnt go do it maybe tonight or tomorrow night


    well take her out like to dinner or something or movies or whatever


    then after when you drop her off or say good bye walk her to her door


    and talk and stuff then when you say bye get close to her and say how bout a kiss goodnight then ahhh lol


    never fails


    and she wants to because she wouldnt be dating you lol
    So a good thing to do is to kiss her cheek first and see her response. There is no set time, just whenever you're both comfortable. Maybe let her make the first move, but you can do the little thing where you lean in and if she wants to kiss you she can lean in the rest of the way.


    I hope this helps. :)
    dating for two weeks and you haven't kissed her?


    a sweet kiss wouldnt be pressuring her.


    that means dont shove you tongue down her throat


    hold her face and kiss her softly...in a loving way not to sexual





    when a girl looks at your eyes then lips, she's probably wanting to kiss you
    Don't make a ceremony out of it. Ever touch her hand? When you are having fun and she says something clever or does something right grab her hand and kiss it like its a reward. that is a good way.

    Fashion advice for a very athletic and muscular girl?

    I have a very muscular and athletic body, but I like to dress girly sometimes. It's pretty hard to find clothes because my figure isn't all that dainty. Any fashion advice or good stores to shop at?





    Oh, and I'm pretty conservative.Fashion advice for a very athletic and muscular girl?
    dont wear halters or many tank tops with super thin straps because theyll show off ur muscles. if u wear a tank, have a thick strap. wear mostly cute button downs like this one http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp鈥?/a>


    with a colorful tank underneath, because theyll cut you at a good place on ur arm. you dont have to cover up ur arms to hide your muscles, but if ur feeling self concious stock up on some cute cardigans. hope this helps

    Any advice on how to sweet talk a girl so she will start having feelings for you?

    im trying to talk to this girl i like but im not much of the sweet talker or good at getting with girls. any advice on what to say or do so she will like me?Any advice on how to sweet talk a girl so she will start having feelings for you?
    jb, just be yourself. girls love it when you make them smile and act cute. they also like it when you compliment them, it really makes them feel good and boosts their self esteem. tell her she smells nice, or that she looks cute in that shirt shes wearing. make her laugh, girls love guys who can just goof around and be themselves infront of girls. good luck.Any advice on how to sweet talk a girl so she will start having feelings for you?
    sense of humor is the key but you could also tell her, in a casual conversation, something like: ';I wish I had a guide to sweet talk girls, especially the ones that I like. What would you do in my place'; then whatever she says do that. I love when a guy asks for my opinion it gives me a chance to be honest with them without feeling confronted and he knows exactly what to do. good luck.
    deep down and girls dont want to admite to it but i do, girls like to be rescued like in the midevil days, i know you cant rent a horse or anything or probley dont want to wear tights.lol.but a girl will start to have feelings for you when you guys hang out for a while so theres no magic words or spells just be you.
    Um, DON'T SWEET TALK HER! Just be yourself, (I know that sounds cliche, but it's true). Dude, if she doesn't find you interesting or anything, than you're not meant to be. Try talking to her like you would anyone. Don't waste your time on someone who you can't even talk to like a normal person. You must have chemistry. Bottom line, talk to her like you would any other person. I'm sorry if I'm on a rant, just speaking from the perspective of a woman. =)
    don't use pick up lines, girls have figured them out pretty well, and they now seem pretty cheesy. The best thing to do to get someone to like you is to be yourself, don't be fake, there's nothing worse than a guy who has to change himself for a girl.





    good luck!
    Be nice! Compliment her. Talk to her nicely. Like you would with a friend but nicer. Become her friend, get her number, screename, be her friend on facebook. Eventually the realtionship will grow. Also learn about her intrest and take a intrest in what she likes.
    girls like boys that can be confident in themselves. do not pretend to like something that you really don't. do not pretend at all. voice your true opinions, make comments that you believe in and if she likes you she likes you. if not then find someone else.
    don't sweet talk. girls hate it.


    it will make u look like a player unless u mean it





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    awww thats cute i think u have a crush on some one =]


    hmmm how to sweet talk a girl:


    your the sweeties girl i no around


    your cute/pretty=]


    sorry thats all i can think offf





    xoxoxo


    Whitney
    try msn or instant messagin or facebook..speak to her on that and then you will ecome more confident talking to her..thats how i met my gf anyway..we had a long conversation on fcebook then we caried it on in skwl now we are an item
    Girls don't develop feelings for a guy based on their sweet talk. Girls usually see through this pretty quickly. Just be yourself.
    Tell her she's beautiful, plain and simple, cut all the crap


    mine please?


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    research on what tv shows she likes to watch.. then you can start a conversation with that as the subject... then it will eventually come naturally on you...
    you should just be you.


    dont try to any one or anything else.


    you would want some one that likes you for you not what you act like..


    hope this helps :)


    best answer :) ?
    say stuff from the heart most girls love when u do that.





    pickupp lines are usually verry unsuccessful
    Ask her out for a movie or something you know she would like.
    tell her you are happy, and when she asks you why, tell her, because i met you. xD
    it just hapens at the heat of the moment when the time comes youll think of something
    be yourself but the nice side of you! or say dont mean to be blunt but your beautiful!!! bum bum

    Need girl advice! I want to be more than friends but what do I do?

    Well there is this girl i like. She is new to the school this year and I have been there for her when she had problems. Now we hang out a lot at school and I want to be more than friends. How do I let her know or how do I find out if she feels the same? What type of hints do i give her? (To give you guys an idea about us im really nice to her and pay attention to what she says and i hug her when shes cold)Need girl advice! I want to be more than friends but what do I do?
    She would be a really lucky girl if you asked her out. Keep up the hugging thing and definitely keep paying attention to what she says. But add in a few other things, like open the door for her, offer to carry her books, mention something about how she looks (in a good way). Also, you could try just asking her to come over to your house to help you with a homework assignment- just make sure it's not an easy one so she won't think your stupid or something.Need girl advice! I want to be more than friends but what do I do?
    when you two are alone, sitting down whatever, just say ';ehy, would you like to go out with me?'; or...';how do you feel about being more than friends?'; a girl loves to be spoken upfront to trust me! when my guy friend sat down with me and randomly said'; so how do you feel about dating m';? i said heck yes!
    hang out a lot pay attention to what she says stare at her,help her like opening doors and stuff like this now ahttp://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a> mine
    smile alot and gain a better understanding of each other. once you are pretty sure she is comfortable around you, and enjoys your company, then ask her if she wants to hook up.
    Girls like gifts. Jewelry, clothing. In general, the biches can be easily bought.
    if she looks in your eyes it means she want to kiss you and if she is shy round and tries to make a conversatoin but does not do very well she likes you
    talk to her a lot, flirt with her occasionally but don't be a total man whore.
    Keep it going with the hugs and just make her feel special. Then you'll know..





    Good Luck!
    make her feel special spend some one on one time with her so she gets a somewhat different vibe
    are you gay no afence??????????????????
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    My girlfriends former friend is cutting herself! Please give me advice to Julia, she says and i quote from her ';there is no answeer u hav no idea wht iv been though and how many times in the middle of classes i just want to sit there and ball'; What should i tell her? ive tried alot of things! im not going to tell an adult. PLEASE TELL ME WHAT TO DO!!What advice should i give to a girl whos cutting herself?
    She's reaching out to you for help.


    So you must help. Even if it's against her will.


    Eventually she might kill herself through depression.


    Depression is a treatable mental illness.


    Many people who are depressed kill themselves.


    You need to help her.


    Go to a senior in your community, school or home or religious leader.What advice should i give to a girl whos cutting herself?
    you need to tell someone as soon as you can. if you don't then if something happens to her then you will be guilty.
    don't

    Any advice on how to let a girl know I have a crush on her?

    Were both in the 10th grade, and go to the same class, and I want to know how I can make her think that I have a crush on her right away. Any ideas?Any advice on how to let a girl know I have a crush on her?
    Just flirt it up with her :) make it obvious so that then you can tell her how you feel and she won't be all that shocked. She'll be ready for itt. Eye contact and spreading the word is good.... but don't let a lott of other people tell her you like her anddd if you ';stare deeply into her eyes'; all the time, she might get a little creeped out.. But i definatly agree with telling her how you feel. Cause you can't do anything if she doesn't know that much ;)Any advice on how to let a girl know I have a crush on her?
    Tell her how you feel. The only way to let her know is to tell her. I had a crush on a guy i knew from middle school and was to afraid to tell him. I watched him date all the wrong girls and see him hurt in the end. Maybe had I spoken to him first he could of bypassed all the other stuff.
    Walk over to her, and start up a conversation... Then after a few minutes of talking, say something like, I really enjoy talking to you. And I would really like to get to know you more. Ask if she wants to do something that weekend, like go to a movie or something.
    Telling her would be a way to let her know you have a crush on her right away! duh. Get your friends to start a rumor that you like her, and get her to hear it. Or tell one of her friends that you know will blab it to her.
    Just be Pacific don't buy her any jewelry ok. go up to her don't act all shy and don't get your friend to tell her unless your really gutless. explain why you like her. don't act all brave just act normal let her see if your the one for her
    You could tell her, write her a letter, poem, or card . I suggest you get to know her as a friend before you come on strong with letting her know you have a crush on her.
    I just think that if you really like her, you would tell her.





    Like find out a way to talk to her and gradually build up till you tell her that you like her.





    :]
    Don't be shy and talk to her,


    people usually get the sense that you're interested into them when you talk to them, but don't be so blunt and say hi my name is xxxx and I like you.
    text her and ask her if she believes in 11:11. give her clues that you wished for you two to go out. go about it in a flirty matter. have fun :)
    well ask her to go to lunch with you or send here a text mesage im sure you can get here number some how and let here no you are hot for her well good luch bud take care
    hmm...if only there was some way to communicate thoughts between two people through some sort of verbal technique? oh yea! try talking to her!
    Get to class early and leave an anonymous note on her desk.
    eye contact is the key! Try talking to her, asking to sit with her at lunch, starting conversations with her. Ask her on a date, but eventually, try having a convo first!
    keep looking at her, eye contact.


    She`ll always wonder why and have the first impression in her mind that you like her.
    tell her you have a crush on her xD
    never let a rumor start......been dare got humiliated twice.......just ask her out
    telling her would be a great start
    stare deeply into her eyes
    steal her lunch then trip her when she runs after you
    just be flirty with her
    either eye contact





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    spread the word =]

    I need some advice as to how to approach a girl I like?

    Basically, I have feelings for one of my friends that is a girl, and I am not sure as to how to confront her about it. I am positive she likes me back, just not sure how she feels about our relationship. She is very attractive, and I just want some advice how to approach her before she is taken away by someone else.I need some advice as to how to approach a girl I like?
    Just tell her when you guys are alone that you really like her and she what she does.

    Alright im due in June and its a girl :) I need advice on middle names?

    Here are some thats more my taste: Jhordyn. Danielle. Brooke. Taylor. Aspyn. Ashtin or Ashtyn. Ava. Averi. Stevie Lynn. Jaysa Jane.Alright im due in June and its a girl :) I need advice on middle names?
    out of your names..





    Ava Jordan


    Danielle Brooke


    Aspyn Taylor


    Ashtyn Jane


    Averi Lynn





    :)Alright im due in June and its a girl :) I need advice on middle names?
    aspyn and ava are cute my friends name is aspen and her little sisters name is ava!!!
    Well what's the first name?





    Advice is sorta like: Don't give your kid the same initial for their first and middle name. Also you want to make sure they flow, and don't use any ridiculous spellings or it'll just look retarded.
    Whats the first name?





    I like danielle. and Ashtyn.





    things like lynn, and brooke, and taylor, are such everyday names. i like names out of the ordinary. =]


    unique
    Jhordyn is gorgeous. I like Danielle. I love Brooke %26amp; Taylor. I detest Aspyn, Ashtin, Ashtyn, Ava, Averi, or Stevie Lynn. I love Jaysa Jane.





    I would go with Jhordyn.
    Middle names depend completely on the first name. but i like the names Tyra, Lianna, Talia, Gracie, Paige, and Skye.
    Danielle is my absolute favorite%26lt;3


    Ashtyn and Ava are adorable too.
    It depends on your girl's first name, but I like : Marie, Ann, Jane, Rose, Brielle, Vera, Lucy, and Jamie
    I like Danielle, Brooke, Taylor.
    How about:





    Piper


    Tatum


    Patience


    Elara


    Illyria


    Rianna


    Thalia


    Aisha


    Jacinta


    Cleo


    Ayla


    Arianna


    Giselle


    Melina


    Jessamine


    Dahlia


    Danika


    Carissa


    Olivia


    Bianca


    Miriam


    Stella/Estelle


    Mischa


    Hannah


    Anneliese


    Lila


    Georgia


    Skye


    Willa-Rose


    Jocasta


    Aria/Arielle


    Evelyn


    Ivy


    Fallon


    Naomi


    Serena





    Do any of these suit?
    Taylor, Ashton and Avery are very classy and pretty names.





    My name is Avery, and I like my name, but I would HATE if if my mom has ruined it by spelling it Averi.
    Jordan is fine, spelled Jordan or Jordyn, not h is needed in the name


    Danielle is pretty, Dani is cute


    Brooke, I never liked, a lot of people do


    Taylor I love for a girl


    Aspyn, hate


    Ashton, is a boys name, I like Ashlyln or Aisling


    Ava is pretty


    Avery I love for a girl, do not like it Averi


    Stevie, is a cute nickname for Stephine, not as a first name


    Lynn is cute


    Jaysa, I do not like


    Jane is okay, like better as a middle





    My favorites from your list


    Jordan, Danielle, Taylor and Avery
    Rae


    Alena


    Rose





    I like Stevie Rae
    I like the shorter middle names.. Jane is adorable, as are Ava and Avery. Good luck. :)
    Danielle Amelia or


    Brooke Summer
    Are these potential first names for your baby or are these names you're considering as a middle name?


    Ashtyn Kelsa


    Jhordyn Brooke


    Aspyn Briarly


    Averi Brynn


    Kenya Reese


    Emersyn Danielle


    Kelby Noelle

    Girl advice needed. I'm always flirting and talking to this girl, but she's kind of reserved. Should I just?

    Should I just wait until we're alone, and say something like, ';I really want to kiss you right now.'; Or something like that. I know that sounds creepy, but she's never kissed anyone before, and she's really reserved. She's 17, and so am I. I almost feel like if I just ';went for it'; out of the blue she might sort of shut down (because she's really reserved). Anyway, advice?Girl advice needed. I'm always flirting and talking to this girl, but she's kind of reserved. Should I just?
    ask her out date her for awhile then when the time comes try to kiss her.Girl advice needed. I'm always flirting and talking to this girl, but she's kind of reserved. Should I just?
    look bro if u kissed out of the blue i don't think it would go so well that kind of stuff only happens in the movies it's real cliche





    u said u liked her right? so just ask her out and seeing that she is reserved and possibly likes u i doubt she'll say anything but yes so just ask her out and after a couple dates definitely go for the kiss





    just remember don't push it and just play it cool





    Hope i could help :)
    No you should respect her wishes, unless you guys officially go out and are in a relationship, then you could instigate a kiss, but if you guys are just friends don't kiss her out of the blue. She might think you're just trying to get into her pants, talk to her and make her feel comfortable and then worry about the physical part.
    Well, don't rush her or push her to doing things she might be uncomfortable with.

    What advice do you have for babysitting an autistic girl?

    She's 3,and I'm going to be watching her some Saturday nights.It's not diagnosed,but I think she has it,and my mom agrees,she used to work with them for a living.It's not really bad though,like mild.What advice?What advice do you have for babysitting an autistic girl?
    be calm and collected before you go over there. if you're nervous she'll more than likely pick up on your vibe. treat her as if she's just like everyone else *after all no one is to say that autism isn't normal* it will make her feel like you don't pity her and like you actually care. keep an eye on her though, autistic kids can get pretty wild at times.What advice do you have for babysitting an autistic girl?
    first off, don't lable her. even if she is diagnosed as autistic, she is a child with autism, not an autistic child. (that is such a HUGE pet peeve of mine) but esspecially in this situation because it hasn't been confirmed, and who is to say she isn't just a quiet distant child. anyways say she actually does suffer from autism, its important that you offer stimulating activities, however don't force them on her. if she chooses not to partake leave it at that. talk to her parents about activities that she likes and try those with her, it is more important that you offer social interactions with her. talk with her, as many children with autism, esspecailly on the low end of the spectrum, lack social skills, and don't pick up on ques. it will help develop her speech and language skills at the very least.
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  • What advice do have to a girl that imagines MOST things WORST case scenario?

    She is 10?What advice do have to a girl that imagines MOST things WORST case scenario?
    ohhh thats not good =[ but if she imagenes the worst case scenario giv her the bright side of it all =] ex: the worst cas scenario: lets say her best friend were 2 die ( bad i kno but all i could think of sry!) and the bright side is: she will b with God in heaven =] and she would hav wanted u 2 b happy and make new friends too =] try it and c wat ahppens im pretty sure it will help =] i do hope it does! =DWhat advice do have to a girl that imagines MOST things WORST case scenario?
    Hi there! Have you ever, or has this girl ever heard of the phrase 'Is your glass half-empty or half-full?'


    There is nothing wrong with being practical in the outcomes of situations as long as the individual practices the art of imagining both.


    Then the challenge is to weigh one against the other and do the really hard part... 'Make an appropriate or well-thought out choice.';


    For a ten year old that is a very hard thing to do. That is why we begin practicing this when the choices are not those which would be 'life-threatening' or 'very hurtful to oneself or others' - at least that is the hopeful scenerio.


    Life is made up of choices, what color shirt to wear or be kind to someone. Walk past a piece of trash or pick it up and get the feeling of being a helpful human being.


    I think... because I am not a therapist or have a degree in this sort of thing I will say 'think'. The best advice I would like to offer is this:


    1. Remember the 'Golden Rule': Do Unto Others As You Would Have Them Do Unto You.


    2. Think about all of the most important things in life we learn in kindergarten - i.e. Say Please, Say Thank-You, Flush, Be Kind, Share, Keeps Your Hands To Yourself, Cover Your Mouth When You Cough, and so on and so on.





    In the enormous amount of life that I have experienced in the 41 years I have been on earth I have heard, disbelieved in, and then had the great joy of the belief that 'What Comes Around Goes Around'. All of these 'cliches' or 'sayings' are so much more true than one would believe at first.





    Even if at the time it seems like only the worst can happen, there is always a choice to be made. Practice, practice, and practice making good choices and only good awaits you.


    But this is just my thinking, hopefully if more people believe in the good of themselves and others than life will begin to be a much more enjoyable experience and this sometimes very ugly world we live in could begin to be more beautiful.


    Very, very, sincerely,


    Trixxi
    ummmm... she's ten. It sounds normal to me. It'll pass.
    I do the same thing, i always think the worst and when it goes to custard its no big deal lol. I find it hard to think positive as I'm not a lucky person, so I wouldn't worry to much about it there's many people feel the same way.

    How do know if a girl likes you, girls advice please?

    There is a girl i have my eye on who lately has paid a lot of attention to me. She is real flirty and she always likes to touch me. How do i know if she is interested?How do know if a girl likes you, girls advice please?
    okay so you guys obv. like eachother, just play fit with her more, and show her how fun you can be. Then ask her to go to dinner or a movie or on a date, but be confident, but not cockyy. ohh and dress to impress good luckk.How do know if a girl likes you, girls advice please?
    she already likes you i never act interested in guy but i will end up touching him without even realising it uually his haor or somrhing.








    then again once i have touched a guy on the arm just to make him more comfortable when i was not remotely intrested in him.
    well obviouzly shez intrested dummy
    just ask her, fastest way to noe and good luck
    you already do! These are like levels if you will





    level one


    blushing, talking non stop





    level two


    flirty crazy, gets kinda awkward





    level three


    she touches you





    (after level three its basically LOVE!)
    we laugh even when not funny star at u allllll the time any chance they get we try and rub up againest u stuff like that
    yeah she deffinatly likes youuu :)

    Does anyone have any girl advice?

    I've had a ';thing'; with about 10 girls in the past year. I didn't go out officially with any of them. Eventually things just get broken off and she goes out with someone else. It always happens. Im not ugly, I'm not mean, I have a sense of humor, I know how to flirt, could I possibly be too shy? Basically what I'm trying to ask is once I have a thing with a girl how do I seal the deal and what should I do and not do to make her like me more.Does anyone have any girl advice?
    well you seem to describe yourself well, maby it is that you are shy and dont take things far enough

    Whats your advice on dealing with a preteen girl?

    Sometimes I just feel like ripping my hair out with mine. From the ';you don't understand!'; yells, the slamming door, and the tears, I do not know how to handle her. I know her hormones are out of wack (she got her period at 10), but it's driving me nuts. She is 11.Whats your advice on dealing with a preteen girl?
    slamming a door in my house, and say good bye to the door!


    You have to put your foot down mom..





    And if need be, maybe a little spanking will bring her back to


    reality!Whats your advice on dealing with a preteen girl?
    All I can think of offhand is don't sink to her level. Remain calm. Don't start yelling when she loses her cool. When she is in a calm state let her know you are there for her but slamming doors is totally unacceptable. Give her space but not too much. Don't let the rules go just to keep peace. Eventually she will come around.
    I vividly remember thinking when i was a teen that my mom just was the worst at handling my life and just stunk at listening to me. when it came to rules and what not i thought my mom was a you-know-what. But im off in college right now, and i cant even begin to say how much i took my mom for granted back then. I know i was going through stuff and my mom didnt exactly understand but i apologize to my mom alot because i now realize how awesome she really is.





    I pray that your daughter does the same except realizes it earlier. Im going to be a mom in 6 months. And everyone keeps saying ';its going to be a girl'; and i know ill be pullin my hair out one day too then. So i dont exactly know the moms point of view just yet. But i know the daughters. and Im sure that she will one day know what a great mom you are.





    i also agree with the other ladies here. Dont let any of your rules go away. Keep them up. Im sure she will call you every name in the book ( like i did) but i know now my mom was just looking out for me and it was all with good intentions.





    gosh i need to call my mommy now and tell her i love her.





    Hope i helped even just a little
    Hmm...im 13 and i can completley understand, i think im just like her, what you need is to give her some space, and she's right parent's dont understand, i dont think that you remember your junior high/middle school years...or in her case elementary....it would help if you asked her if she wanted anything (cup of milk, cookies, stuff like that)


    it would help if you would explain the problem!
    Going into middle school? Then yea it's the hormones. Maybe she just needs someone to talk to because she's holding in a lot. Ask what's wrong and even if it's the stupidest thing, just be like ';Yea i understand'; or something like that.
    Leave her be. Its her becoming a teenager. She'll say some more things like ';I hate you'; and ';i wish i never was your daughter';. But, its just part of being a teenager.





    :]
    i'm sorry but you have at least 5 more years of this and she has to learn to deal with the hormones her own way


    hang in there :|

    Plz help i need talking to a girl advice?

    ok theres this girl that a friend of mine showed me and she is beautiful.. and my friend said she really wants to talk to me...i want to talk to her 2 but everytime i go to go talk to her i get nauseous and feel like im going to throw up.... why does this happen... and what can i do to fix it... plz help thanksPlz help i need talking to a girl advice?
    just say u like her and u whant to be good frindsPlz help i need talking to a girl advice?
    Aw. lol well try not to feel nervous, is this like your first time talking to a girl or something ? Lemme guess your young
    be more confident and if you need to just pretend that she is ugly.... it sounds bad but it works
    It's gonna sound clich茅, it's gonna sound typical and it's gonna sound ordinary... but you have to man up and be confident. Harsh reality is that if you confidently approach her, she shouldn't mind you talking to her - but if you are shy and showing it, you'll be ';at her mercy'; and she'll choose whether she wants to talk to you purely based on her interests (as in her liking shy guys or something)

    Need advice quick, how should I engage conversation with a girl who speaks little english?

    She's Polish and a real hotty, keen aswell, but how should I get the conversation flowing?Need advice quick, how should I engage conversation with a girl who speaks little english?
    Ask her what it was like in poland and help her speak more english and


    just show that you are a good mates to hang around withNeed advice quick, how should I engage conversation with a girl who speaks little english?
    Is she studying English? Are you studying Polish? Are you both studying a third language? If not, there's no future there.





    I had a girlfriend who spoke very little English; but, I was studying Spanish, and I became fluent in no time. I dated another girl from Japan, and she was learning English. With me teaching her, she became fluent in no time. The girl I'm seeing now once had a Japanese boyfriend, and they barely got by with an English-Japanese dictionary. That relationship went nowhere, because, basically, all they could do was stare at each other or make out.





    Obviously, if she's working on learning English, speak slowly and clearly, be patient, and try to use simpler words and sentence structure. Stick to the same words for things, at least until she improves.
    you can't.. you're going to have to use other means than that.





    you just need to control the entire conversation, and keep it basic and make her laugh..





    the annoying thing is that she doesn't have american culture or language down, so the simplest of phrases have no meaning to her.. you're going to make a simple joke or observation, or say something witty, and she'll look at you blankly..





    good luck with that!
    Polish Dictionary or pocket translator. To translate the words she doesn't understand.


    Also, choose topics easy for her to understand, which she is interested in and therefore will try hard to understand, and which you can easily talk about.
    Say it with flowers. Not a word, just flowers. Face to face. Doesn't have to be expensive. That'll get things going. Works every time. Good Luck.
    make universal ******* sighn.tongue pushing against inside of cheek.
    Start talking about World War II. That'll get her fired up.
    Hi. See where it goes from there. dont make it so complicated, or it will be.
    wear the colors of her flag to impress her
    Learn a phrase in Polish.
    http://www.google.com/language_tools?hl=鈥?/a>
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  • Advice for when a girl is on top during sex?

    Whenever I'm on top during sex I feel like I have no idea what I'm doing. I'm not completely clueless, but I just would like some tips. Does anyone have any ideas or advice on what to do? Thanks!Advice for when a girl is on top during sex?
    same question! :]


    thanks for asking this hah.Advice for when a girl is on top during sex?
    Try to sit up while on top, so that you don't have your whole body on him and your knees on each side of his pelvis and rock your pelvis back and forth - guys love it!
    rock-a-by-baby

    Advice for when a girl is on top during sex?

    Whenever I'm on top during sex I feel like I have no idea what I'm doing. I'm not completely clueless, but I just would like some tips. Does anyone have any ideas or advice on what to do? Thanks!Advice for when a girl is on top during sex?
    I am in the same boat. The best advice I got was to relax and enjoy the feelings. Lean back and let your hair brush his legs and use your arms to help move you.

    I want ot become a girly girl.I want advice on how to get my hair done and what kind of clothes to wear!?

    I am a tom boy but im into make up and hair products.I do think i am a girly girl but just need advice on the hair and clothes departmentsI want ot become a girly girl.I want advice on how to get my hair done and what kind of clothes to wear!?
    I too am a tomboy, but love to be girly girl! I've found that watching ';what not to wear'; has been a great educational tool!





    Stacy and Clinton are hillarious! Sometimes the truth hurts, but I wish I had someone to help me like that! The hair styles and makeup tips are great too. A ';total package'; thing.





    Just play around and experiment with styles and different colors. It's free at the department stores and if you really want to you can make an appointment with them and they'll make you over(it costs, but you dont have to buy anything)





    Remember the most important thing about this though,


    Beauty comes from the inside out. Women usually dress for women, not men. Guys are not going to notice if you're wearing teal or blue eyeshadow, but they WILL remember the smile in your eyes(if it's genuine)


    Good luck young lady.I want ot become a girly girl.I want advice on how to get my hair done and what kind of clothes to wear!?
    u can make any clothes look girly just by adding sum accessories to your outfit.


    as for your hair, there are lots of hair magazines out tht u can buy wich could help you decide,or even ask the hairdresser, they would know what hairstyle wud suit u :)
    You know, you don't really need to change yourself just because others are saying you're not feminine enough. I mean, what's wrong with a girl who is confident in herself and does stuff that normally guys do? What's wrong with a female being a tad more masculine? In the same manner, what's wrong with a guy acting effeminate? Just because you act like the opposite sex doesnt mean you're homosexual or anything. Be comfortable with who you are. It's actually the others who are insecure. Guys would be insecure because you might out-macho them and girly girls would be insecure because sometimes all a guy wants is a girl who can understand a man better and tomboy girls simply share more in common with men so they'll connect more easily. hope this helps and maybe saves you money if you decide not to go through with a costly makeover :P
    everything you need to know is in glamour
    watch some girly chickflick films like


    mean girls, white chicks, 13 going on 30





    they give out really dress style to girls, makes you aware whats in and whats out..





    you have to accessorize too such as handbags, bit of jewellery but not too much though..





    also sometimes its nice to match clothes...(usually in shops on the plastic models they match clothes on them, so makes you aware, what type of clothes you can wear with what.





    i think pastel colours are great girly girl colours





    ie light pinks, light green, light yellows...





    Miss seldfridge is a really good clothes store for girls/teenage/lady/women. slightly pricey, but good quality clothes..


    tehy have really feminine girly clothes and stylish..and come in many sizes...they also do petite section (if u are small like me)





    what ann s said is untrue..you dress good for yourself. Not for other women..





    if you looking good you feel good and you will feel confident
    Cosmo and other girly girls, thats how I learned...

    What advice would you give a teenage girl when losing her virginity?

    wear protection and if you feel weird after that go to tha docWhat advice would you give a teenage girl when losing her virginity?
    Jenny if you have to ask if you are ready... you aren't.


    My advice is if you are going to go through with it use a condom, and I hope you are on some kind of birth control, but none the less use a condom. There are so many sexually transmitted disease, and all it takes is ONE time.


    sex can be just sex, or it can be something special and romantic. just because the boy you like wants it doesn't mean you have to give it. One day you will look back and think, I had sex with that guy, and that guy... So decide now how long you want that list to be. And make sure youre not going to look back and say, I wish i hadn't had sex with him, because he turned out to be a jerk.


    No guy is worth keeping over sex. If you have to have sex to keep him, he doesn't deserve you.


    Lets talk about using a condom. Do not rinse and re use. A lot of people take a precaution when they ***, pull out even though they are wearing a condom. Also, you should change the condom if the boy came and wants to keep going. make sure he holds the condom when he pulls out, that way he doesn't pull out and leave the condom in you (it won't get stuck, it's just it can defeat the purpose of the condom), PRE *** CAN GET GIRLS PREGNANT, don't be fooled by that. You can get pregnant on your period.


    When putting the condom on, make sure you're putting it on the right side, you'll know if the condom goes all the way down. You can flush the condom, not the packaging. You should get spermicide and lubricant. Lubricant can make it go in smoother. Spermicide kills the sperm extra protection in case of an accident.


    Be a smart girl choose what is right for you, and take the smart pre cautions. You don't realize your freedoms until they are taken away.


    You don't realize how lucky you are to be so pure right now, with no STDs and completely innocent. And lastly, so many girls are having sex... which is funny because it turns a lot of guys on to be know their gf is a virgin, so remember he is not the only guy that will want to sleep with you. Don't be afraid to say no.


    Keep in mind once you start having sex you SHOULD you dont have to, but you should get tested for STDs and AIDs every 6 months, because sometimes it takes 6 months for it to show up (depending on the disease). Make sure the person you have this experience with is clean, and its not uncommon for people to lie, or to not know that they have something. somethings are never cureable, and some people are carriers of STDs with no visible signs of it.


    I'm not trying to scare you, sex is fun, wild, and it should be enjoyed, but responsibly. So please, take pre caution you dont want to regret it.What advice would you give a teenage girl when losing her virginity?
    Well look here- I'm sorry but I think you want an honest opinion so: 1st remember the BEST thing that can happen from sex is pregnancy SO if you aren't ready for that then you better think twice about doing it. Definately use a condom because remember the BEST thing is a baby whose every need in life after the nine months of gaining wait getting sick and a painful delivery becomes your LIFE!!!! The other things that can happen are too many diseases to count, a painful break up and or broken heart and that's before he knows your pregnant but if that happens you're even more in trouble. Your body may not even be ready for that. If you have to come here for advice, you probably can't go to a parent or clergy member which tells me you are too young to be taking this step. I pray that you really rethink it and talk to a friend that respectes herself enough to have made a commitment to herself not to do these things. Sweety the guys that ask this of you will not respect you for doing it. You have something they all want but it belongs as a sweet gift to the man you choose to take as your life partner and God should recognize and tie the two of you together before you do this. You may not be asking for this but I really hope it makes you think. Later in life you WILL meet theman of your dreams - the man that you are supposed to be with and even if this boy you are thinking of is ';the one'; then he will still be the one when the time is right. But if he isn't and you have shared yourself so intamitaley with someone else, you have taken it away from who it belongs to. Your next partner will always have to live with the fact that they get NOTHING special. That you have been shared with someone else. PLEASE think about it- talk to a parent and if you can't then ask yourself why. If you are old enough for sex then you are old enough to talk about it right?!?! Lastly remember this if nothing else- If you think you may have to say you are sorry for something - why do it?????? Good luck
    Be careful! Before you do anything, put yourself in a different situation; if your best friend was going to do what you are thinking of doing, would you be happy for her? Would you warn her not to? Then that will be your answer. Be careful though. There is no rush.
    Um, don't do it? Honestly, what's the rush. If it's with someone you love then they'll wait. And if you're ready as a teenager, then make sure you use protection and are willing and able to accept the emotional responsibilities attached to this.
    condomssss lol. and be careful from now on of who you do it with. and i hope you lost it to someone you love, because of you didn't you're gonna regret it down the road.
    1. dont do it if u dont want to.


    2. do it with the right guy


    3. EXTRA PROTECTION (dont get the cheap condoms. i swear they are baloons.)


    4. DONT DO IT IF IT DOESNT FEEL RIGHT!
    Just go with the flow, try to relax and have fun with it.


    Seriously.


    Make sure you put the condom on right.


    :D
    wait do to it with someone special. don't fall too hard, too quickly. and be safe.
    protection.condoms
    ';Don't do it.';
    take lots of pictures. you'll never see it again.

    How do i show this girl i like her? Advice please?

    So this girl i like who goes to the same college as me is returning home from studying abroad this semester at the end of december. I keep in touch with her through email and facebook. I really like her and her parents also like me. I want to ask her to dinner and a movie to catch up when she gets back. Do you have any advice? Is this a good idea? How should I hint that I like her?How do i show this girl i like her? Advice please?
    you should go up and say ';hey, i like you.';How do i show this girl i like her? Advice please?
    Talk to her on facebook and ask her what you said in the 4th sentence.
    Just do that. She probably likes you and you have nothing to lose, especially since her parents like you.
    Talk to her
    just try and talk with her a lot i think it is a good idea.
    Go up to her and tell her you like her. :D


    If she turns you down in front of your friends. She's a hardcore *****.
    be extremely nice to her and show her you are interested in getting to know her by spending time with her and LOVING IT! :)
    just simply ask her for her number if that doesnt work they as her if she wants to go on a date like to the movies or shopping women love to shop maybe dinner or lunch which ever one works that how i would show her
    ok. 1st of all, im a middle schooler, so u might not want advice from me. but, u should give her a little time to get used to being back to wherever u guys r, and then, u know, where something nice, u know, like a classic witch, something like that, and try to b funny. that helps me. and bring up a conversation that would end up with dating, and once shes done talking about it, i would say: by the way, ive got so and so day off. would u like to go to dinner with me? this is my advice.

    With scriptural references, what will you advice a 16 years old girl who got pregnant from rape, to abort?

    should she abort the pregnancy from rape or not?With scriptural references, what will you advice a 16 years old girl who got pregnant from rape, to abort?
    What manner of person the child can become is determined by his life after he is born.





    Proverbs 22:6


    Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it.





    Not to abort. The mother should keep in mind that the child should not be hated because he is a result of a crime. He should be loved by taking care of him teaching him the good ways of life and to avoid the wrong.





    Lo, children are an heritage of the LORD: and the fruit of the womb is his reward. Psalm 127:3





    God has allowed for her to get pregnant. I believe God also wants the child born and be raised for a better purpose.With scriptural references, what will you advice a 16 years old girl who got pregnant from rape, to abort?
    My advice would be to be her support system in whatever she chooses to do. Abortion might not be the right thing to do for her but then again it might but in my opinion that choice needs to ultimately come from within her and nothing in the bible should persuade her to do or not do something that SHE cannot live with. There is also the option of adoption. She could give birth, not feel the guilt that some women have over killing a child and give the child to a family who would happily accept it. No one ever has to know....but you know speaking as someone who is unable to get her adoption records opened because I am a product of rape/incest I can tell you it isn't the child's fault and even though I know that much I admire my mom for having me. So if it were me, I'd leave the bible out of it...leave what you think out of it and try to get to the root of what she WANTS because ultimately she will have to live with her choice for life and I am not saying I don't support her aborting it....I am saying though that doesn't set well with everyone after it is done and there are alternatives.....
    um..i know peoples opinions vary, but in my personal opinion i would not keep the baby, firstly, having a baby of a rapist and looking at the child, and seeing the features of the rapist and secondly iwhen older it may effect the relationship between me and the child, and also may effected a person mentally. i do understand people feel that abortion wrong, if it is your fault, like not using a condom, but i feel that if you was to get raped, or that contraception did not work, then abortion is the end result. dont forget this is my personal opinion, i am not saying its right to abort overall, but in my eyes with certain conditions it can be considered.





    thanks for reading x
    i don't think there scriptural references that would support the idea of abortion for a 16yr old even if she was raped.


    speaking personally, a person who was raped has every right in the world to have an abortion as the act of sex was against their will.


    of course if they wish they to carry the child then that's amazing. but theres no shame if rape victim gets an abortion.
    16 is very young.. It would be a personal choice, personally i could not keep the baby because of the events of which it was concieved but if you are strong willed and can have the baby and once born decide whether to keep it or give it up for adoption. i know of a man of was adopted and after he grew up he went looking for his parents and found out he was a product of rape it affected him but he is a lovely man nothing like his father and had parents who looked after him and loved him like their own , the girls mental health is most importan in this situation though no one would judge her negatively for her decision. Rape is a sad thing it breaks my heart and all i can hope is that these victims stay strong and no there are so many people out there who will support them.
    it's her decision.


    no one can tell her what to do or what not to do.





    i didn't abort.


    it wasn't my fault, but it wasn't the baby's either.


    i believed that the innocent baby shouldn't be punished for it's ignorant and monstrous father's actions.
    Yes, if that's the choice she makes. I am LDS and abortion is only accepted in the case of rape, incest, or if the mother's health is in jeopardy.
    If that's what she wants to do. She didn't choose to be put in that situation. However, she has to look inside herself, but God is loving and forgiving no matter what decision she makes.
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