Friday, January 8, 2010

What advice would you give a teenage girl when losing her virginity?

wear protection and if you feel weird after that go to tha docWhat advice would you give a teenage girl when losing her virginity?
Jenny if you have to ask if you are ready... you aren't.


My advice is if you are going to go through with it use a condom, and I hope you are on some kind of birth control, but none the less use a condom. There are so many sexually transmitted disease, and all it takes is ONE time.


sex can be just sex, or it can be something special and romantic. just because the boy you like wants it doesn't mean you have to give it. One day you will look back and think, I had sex with that guy, and that guy... So decide now how long you want that list to be. And make sure youre not going to look back and say, I wish i hadn't had sex with him, because he turned out to be a jerk.


No guy is worth keeping over sex. If you have to have sex to keep him, he doesn't deserve you.


Lets talk about using a condom. Do not rinse and re use. A lot of people take a precaution when they ***, pull out even though they are wearing a condom. Also, you should change the condom if the boy came and wants to keep going. make sure he holds the condom when he pulls out, that way he doesn't pull out and leave the condom in you (it won't get stuck, it's just it can defeat the purpose of the condom), PRE *** CAN GET GIRLS PREGNANT, don't be fooled by that. You can get pregnant on your period.


When putting the condom on, make sure you're putting it on the right side, you'll know if the condom goes all the way down. You can flush the condom, not the packaging. You should get spermicide and lubricant. Lubricant can make it go in smoother. Spermicide kills the sperm extra protection in case of an accident.


Be a smart girl choose what is right for you, and take the smart pre cautions. You don't realize your freedoms until they are taken away.


You don't realize how lucky you are to be so pure right now, with no STDs and completely innocent. And lastly, so many girls are having sex... which is funny because it turns a lot of guys on to be know their gf is a virgin, so remember he is not the only guy that will want to sleep with you. Don't be afraid to say no.


Keep in mind once you start having sex you SHOULD you dont have to, but you should get tested for STDs and AIDs every 6 months, because sometimes it takes 6 months for it to show up (depending on the disease). Make sure the person you have this experience with is clean, and its not uncommon for people to lie, or to not know that they have something. somethings are never cureable, and some people are carriers of STDs with no visible signs of it.


I'm not trying to scare you, sex is fun, wild, and it should be enjoyed, but responsibly. So please, take pre caution you dont want to regret it.What advice would you give a teenage girl when losing her virginity?
Well look here- I'm sorry but I think you want an honest opinion so: 1st remember the BEST thing that can happen from sex is pregnancy SO if you aren't ready for that then you better think twice about doing it. Definately use a condom because remember the BEST thing is a baby whose every need in life after the nine months of gaining wait getting sick and a painful delivery becomes your LIFE!!!! The other things that can happen are too many diseases to count, a painful break up and or broken heart and that's before he knows your pregnant but if that happens you're even more in trouble. Your body may not even be ready for that. If you have to come here for advice, you probably can't go to a parent or clergy member which tells me you are too young to be taking this step. I pray that you really rethink it and talk to a friend that respectes herself enough to have made a commitment to herself not to do these things. Sweety the guys that ask this of you will not respect you for doing it. You have something they all want but it belongs as a sweet gift to the man you choose to take as your life partner and God should recognize and tie the two of you together before you do this. You may not be asking for this but I really hope it makes you think. Later in life you WILL meet theman of your dreams - the man that you are supposed to be with and even if this boy you are thinking of is ';the one'; then he will still be the one when the time is right. But if he isn't and you have shared yourself so intamitaley with someone else, you have taken it away from who it belongs to. Your next partner will always have to live with the fact that they get NOTHING special. That you have been shared with someone else. PLEASE think about it- talk to a parent and if you can't then ask yourself why. If you are old enough for sex then you are old enough to talk about it right?!?! Lastly remember this if nothing else- If you think you may have to say you are sorry for something - why do it?????? Good luck
Be careful! Before you do anything, put yourself in a different situation; if your best friend was going to do what you are thinking of doing, would you be happy for her? Would you warn her not to? Then that will be your answer. Be careful though. There is no rush.
Um, don't do it? Honestly, what's the rush. If it's with someone you love then they'll wait. And if you're ready as a teenager, then make sure you use protection and are willing and able to accept the emotional responsibilities attached to this.
condomssss lol. and be careful from now on of who you do it with. and i hope you lost it to someone you love, because of you didn't you're gonna regret it down the road.
1. dont do it if u dont want to.


2. do it with the right guy


3. EXTRA PROTECTION (dont get the cheap condoms. i swear they are baloons.)


4. DONT DO IT IF IT DOESNT FEEL RIGHT!
Just go with the flow, try to relax and have fun with it.


Seriously.


Make sure you put the condom on right.


:D
wait do to it with someone special. don't fall too hard, too quickly. and be safe.
protection.condoms
';Don't do it.';
take lots of pictures. you'll never see it again.

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