Sunday, December 27, 2009

How to Ask A Girl Out On Facebook, need advice from a girl?

Okay so, a few months ago I was in driving school (lol interesting place to meet someone) and I saw this girl who I thought was kind of hot. I requested her on facebook and she accepted. However, I never asked her out in person. It was about 4 months ago, can I still ask her out online? If I do, how could I go about striking up a conversation with her without it being akward? Please understand that this is a tricky situation and I need in depth advice.


Thanks,


JonathanHow to Ask A Girl Out On Facebook, need advice from a girl?
DONT. ASK HER OUT IN PERSONHow to Ask A Girl Out On Facebook, need advice from a girl?
If I were her, I would feel kind of awkward if you have never talked to her face to face and ask her out. If you did it subtly, for instance starting out like ';hey, hows it goin...'; and then progress into ';hey, watch a movie some time'; that would be decent.





Better yet, (going off on a bit of a tangent though), stalk her wall to see if she's going to the mall or anything and ';coincidentally'; bump into her there. Then be all like ';Oh HEY! You're that girl from driving school right?'; ... and then lead back into the movie or lunch or beach conversation. :)





Haha, hope this helped. :p
As far as she knows, the thing at driving school never happened. So start off fresh. I normal convo. You seem like you feel like you know her already. Well its not like that. You have to get to know her more. Talk talk talk. Do this for a month. Then ask her out. But if there is more than 1 time that you see her in person (maybe date or coincidentally) and you two start talking, dont wait a month.


;) hope it works babe
Listen dude, if she's going to say ';no'; then she'll say ';no'; either way so ask her out in person. If she says ';yes'; then she'll admire you all the more for having the balls to put your whole self out there and risk rejection. If she says ';no'; then it's still no big deal because you won't ever have to talk to her again.
Go to facebook and ask her if she wants to hang out or drink some Coffee don't ask her out in online. Here's you: @ and here is her: %


example)


@: ( you type to her in facebook) hey do you want to drink some coffee or something?


%: ( she replys) sure Jonathan.


Then you guys meet. And don't forget to be friendly!


@: hey ( girl name)


%: hey bla bla bla


Then you guys talk for a while. Then you say)


@: hey we knowed each other since _____, do you want to go out???


%: oh yes


And your problem is solved.^^
you need to just talk to her and be urself and get to know her. DO NOT ASK HER OUT ON FACEBOOK!!!!! that is a really bad idea. u need to get to know her enuf that she willl meet u somewhere and go out to lunch or something so that she can get to know u better. then ask her out in person!
First off, I have social anxiety, so I most likely can't identify with your situation as much as you're hoping we can.


If you just saw her in driving school and added her on facebook, I think it's time you grow some balls and make a move in person. Unless you want your entire relationship online.
okay, honestly i would wait a while.


you need to get her number and text and talk to her a lot. you need to have more than an internet relationship. so once you two are talking for a while be like well i'd like to see you sometime, are you free this weekend or something like that.





but good luck(:


haha.
be extremely casual, because if you ask her out to dinner or something over facebook she'll be totally creeped out...


maybe just message her and be like 'hey, remember me from driving school?' start up a conversation, then say something along the lines of we should see each other again





she should take the hint by then
Just send her a hey how are you doing? Small talk. Once you get into a good conversation with her and you can feel her out a bit, take the plunge and ask if she wants to check out a movie or something sometime.
do not ever ask a girl out via txting, or online... it is pure RUDE! no gentleman should ever do that is is lame and.... talk about awkward!!!! it is also just ugh! uh! rude! gr8 now i am all fired up...!!!!!!!!!! %26gt;:-( ask her yourself... its cuter....
since it's been 4 months already, you gotta go back to square one. should've asked her the first time. it happens.. anyway, chat a little bit on facebook, know what shes up to these days.
wow, you are quite the romantic. Try emailing her, or IMing her....it'll show her you really think she's the one. Good luck!
Don't!!!! Girls hate it when their entire friend list can read something like that. Message her instead, so only she can read it, and just ask if she wants to hang out some time.
DONT ASK A GIRL OUT ON FACEBOOK!!!!





you can ask her to ';hang out/chill';. but no dates...
Ask in person!
No! Ask her out in person!
Don't ask someone out on the internet!
asking someone out online is pro

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