I need some girl advice from anyone! Best answer gets 10 points?

Lately, I've been going after some girls and I've heard that they only see me as a friend....for future reference, how do I make it so they see me as datable? Like how do I flirt? How do I flirt over text? Best answer gets 10 points thx.I need some girl advice from anyone! Best answer gets 10 points?
This is difficult because different girls like different things.





The most important thing is confidence. Girls love that. I'm not talking about being cocky or conceited but just being sure of yourself.





The guys that I'm most attracted to are guys who know they've got something to offer.





If you let a girl know that you're interested but her liking you back isn't going to make or break you either way...you'll start having more success.I need some girl advice from anyone! Best answer gets 10 points?
Maybe she's afraid of relationships, or maybe she's hurt by someone she loved. Talk about it with her and get to know why she wants you as a friend and not as 'date-able material'.


If she is hurt in the past, make sure you show her the opposite. Be a gentleman, make her laugh, talk with her, go out and have fun.


Flirt... heh, I'd say laughs and smiles are a fine way to show you like someone. You can also say you like to be around her if you get better friends with her. Oh, and surprise her! My exboyfriend brought me a pizza when I was done working. Surprises are great and show you think about her.


But be honest too, if she hasn't got 'that feeling' around you, you shouldn't force her and yourself in a relationship. That'll make you both feel awkward in the end.





Good luck!
usually flirting comes from overconfidence. guys always need to be on their toes with responses and comebacks. so some smarts necessary. :] that's what makes guys flirting so appealing. but not all guys can flirt.





another thing you can do is dress in a more appealing way. . .but it all depends on the girl if you're going to try that.





for the record though, there's nothing wrong with being just friends with a girl. don't be so quick to fall in love or score a hookup. . .just take it slow. :P
K, start wiv hi Sweetie or cutie (or somathing like dat), ask random things bout er, tell er things bout u. Tell er (if u like er) how attractive u think she is.


Talk, email, text, fone etc. Start ur coversation off wiv random things then start talkin bout bigger things.


Compliment er, make ur talks/txts interesting, girls also like jokes, make ur jokes be funny. Smile wheneva u c er, show dat u like er. Make er feel safe round u. Kepp in touch wiv er.
Well if all the girls you see think of you as friends maybe try flirting like physicall flirting or txt sweet messages to them. and maybe they see you as a friend becasue yoor really sweet. the best way to seem dateable is to start off flirting in the begging, or maybe go after a girl who is flirting with you. But txt sweet messages and flirting i person and complementing looks and keeping good eye contact shows a girl you wana be more than friends
flirt and compliment them more..
well saying stuff like babe, sexy, hun, ect. always makes it look more flirty. some girls like smiley faces as a sign, but i think they're annoying. but try it, you might like their response.
you just say things that would make you seem interested say funny things compliment her BUT BE YOURSELF DONT BE FAKE or a JERK
on text say hey cutie pie and stuff like that and when u see her in person hug her and **** and say ur looking good today and then compliment on soemtihng u like about her.
it is easy to flirt when you text cause you just text them alot and they will think you like them good luck
(( u kno u look so pretty to not to date me ))