Advice on a girl that has her defenses up?

Any advice on dealing with a girl that has defenses up? For example there is this girl that I like, and I know she likes me at least a little. But she won't give me a straight answer about dating me or not. She says she is too busy with school and clubs, etc. But I know that she has a hard time opening up to guys. For example she is 20 and has never had a boyfriend, although has dated.





Any suggestions? Should I just take things slowly and keep asking her, or should I be more assertive and take charge of the situation?Advice on a girl that has her defenses up?
stay away, she might eat uAdvice on a girl that has her defenses up?
she may like you but just doesnt want a relationship. just keep it casual, ask her to do stuff like hang out go 2 a concert or lunch, etc but dont seem 2 eager. just let stuff evolve on it's own. if she grows 2 like you more and wants a relationship it will be her move. but if you keep trying to force her to give you a straight answer, she will back away from you.
Sounds like ';she's just not that into you';


If a girl likes a guy she won't be resistant to his efforts to date her


I would try and pursue other girls and maybe this will inspire some jealousy and she may actually miss your advances and come around and if not, maybe you'll meet someone new :)
Do you really believe her? If you really want her, first download the song holding out for a hero by Bonnie Tyler, then you can charge straight at that formidable castle and it's unbreakable defense, don't worry our epicness will bring down the walls.
be assertive and you've lost her. show her she can trust you by doing sweet and gentle little things like giving her a rose and asking her again. she will definitely know you're serious then. and who knows? maybe she'll take a chance on you.
She is playing you.. .. and you can do better.
Maybe you should ask her on a date, if she doesn't really answer you forget it and maybe she will change her mind.
i would let her know how u feel and if yal aint togethere by then jux acept the frind role its too many females in this world to be stuck wit 1 but if u really like ha stick wit ha dnt give up easy
Try going though one of those ';trust exercises'; with her.
a female opinion is 1 maybe she likes u but more so as a friend or maybe she knows she just isn't ready for a relationship. I was kinda the same way. I knew this friend of mine liked and wanted a relationship with me but i cared enough about him not to sport with his feelings. i liked him but wasn't ready to take it to that level yet. after a few more months we became closer and closer. now we are together and for once in my life i truly trust and can give my all to someone. he was a friend and understood me completely. He told me how he felt and left it at that. He continued to b a friend instead of my boyfriend. In the end i respected that he was so understanding and not pushy. We are together and happy as one now!!