Girl Advice?

there's this girl at my church that's really hot. i've been checking her out for like a year.she's the lead singer. i want to tell her how i feel or be friends with her. (not ask her out) but i'm 12 and she's 17. and i look and think more like a 15 year old if you're thinking i shouldn't be thinking about this (went through puberty early). anyway what do i do or say.Girl Advice?
Emotionally, you two are at totally different places emotionally. Not to bring you down, but she is way too old for you, at this age. Generally, 12 year old boys are barely discovering girls while 17 year old girls are well past that point. Yes, you may have gone through puberty early, but your maturity level WILL be different from hers. I know it seems bad now, but trust me, when you two are 20 and 25 it won't be that big of a deal. My advice? FInd someone our own age at church, I'm sure there are plenty of other girls who would be interested.


Best of Luck








P.S. Why are you checking out girls during church?!?!? You should be focusing on the sermon, not the ladies ;)Girl Advice?
my advice is try to get over it ...being frineds with her will tease your brains out and you will not like it and you cant '; go out'; so , i say get over it ....and then try and be friends.....
You could be friends with her probably. but 12 and 17 is a big age difference. even 15 and 17 (where you are the guy) is a big difference. but honestly she'll probably just think your a ';cute little boy'; but what do I know! Just go for it and talk to her. don't try and hit on her or anything though! Good luck, hope everything works out for the best! =]
you tell her that you want to be her friend. I am sure that there are some church functions that you guys can hang out at. Just be honest, that works.... Good luck
12 to 17 is a big age difference.


Maybe if you were older it would be a good idea...but not now.
What is your problem? You really need to get your thinking straight and find someone in your age range.
I don't see any problem with you being friends with her. But if it came to dating, I think she's a tad too old for you.
well i think your chances are slim to young. i mean would you be interested in a 7 year old, if she looked mature hahahha
wow hard situation boy u can talk to her but as friends only in her eyes u may be 2 young 4 her'' go for sum one ur age '''
i think 12 would be a little young for 17
Hi there... I'm 13 and I think you should just get to know her... If she has an e-mail ask for it... and when you e-mail her (if you do) Don't spam her out with lots of e-mails... In the meaning that don't give her chain e-mails unless she gives them to you... The best thing to do is be a friend to her... I'm in a relationship with a sweet boy and he caught my eye because he smiled at me a lot.... One main thing in a friend ship is eye contact and smiling..... look into her eyes and try not to look away.... Smile at her!


Good luck!
Find reasons to hang out together. Ask her out with friends after church. Then talk to her, starting with light subjects, (music, movies, etc.), and gradually move to more serious subjects. If you become close emotionally, maybe she'd be willing to date.





A five year age difference isn't that great, when you're in your late twenties. Right now it is probably a MAJOR obstacle. Don't get your hopes up too much.