Thanks!Advice for an American girl dating a Desi guy?
Hey, if he is honest, then try to treat him with attention. If you don't do this, then he might get irritated.
Word of advice. Try to really get to know him. Try to irritate him and see what he does (opposite of what I stated above). This will give you insight of this person. Being a Indian guy raised in America, I tend to know both cultures very well. I went to India this summer to get my sister married and I was so frustrated by the young people there.
Firstly, ask him what state he is from. ';Gujarat,'; then you ran into a cheater. Safest state I know is ';Punjab';. People from Punjab are very honest. By the way, I am from Gujarat(that's where I went this summer).
While I was there, I learned the insight of the young people there. It disgusted me. They want to marry you for the citizenship status you hold. Also I learned that they are very perverted. When they go oversees for 'studies,' they tend to do things more openly then they can do back in India. Paying prostitutes, staring at girls, girlfriends, and have s**. Even there, people have s** everyday because it is like new to them. When it's time for them to get married(arranged), they dump you. Chances are they make the gf preggy, and do abortion. And don't even tell their new wives (arranged) or the parents.
In another words, the girl was just a time passing machine. Telling from personal experience and other proofs too. Too many to count. Just be safe, don't be forced into having s**.Advice for an American girl dating a Desi guy?
Dude, don't go for the darker skinned indians, they tend to be aggressive and nasty. Go for the the ones that are closer to Pakistan, near Punjab, there lighter toned and tend to be nicer and more considerate. But overall people from south asia are not so kind to other races.
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nik, ur a effin douche bag. i dont know any indians who r even close to wat u said.u need to spend more time learning about indian culture. stupid c*nt!
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Indians have changed a lot from the by gone days and the concepof the Western World is outdated. Indian boys are very much like any others around the world but possibly a litle conservative.
However - word of Caution for all inter-racial affairs be it Indian or otherwise - Probably one of the most hurtful things in life is having to deal with family and friends who are not supportive of the people you truly like and love. One might wonder what may cause family and friends to rebel against interracial dating. As explained in Verna Stolkes鈥?book entitled Marriage, Class and Color in the 19th Century Cuba, many families opposed the bonding of their loved one with someone of another race because of political reasons, religious reasons, or family pride. Apparently, many are not able to handle the conflicts and struggles brought on by family and friends. They need sanctions or permission from their parents to see if it is okay to date out of their race. The parent鈥檚 influential power causes them to be skeptical and doubtful about being involved in such relationship that they decide to end a perfect relationship in order to make them happy.
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I suggest you be careful, very careful, you don't want your heart broken. As others have said, Indian guys only like to be with White girls for fun (most of the time). Most Indian parents frown upon dating white girls. When it time comes to get married, he won't think twice about your relationship, it will probably mean nothing to him. If he is just new to America, make sure he doesn't use you or a green card (sounds silly, but people actually do that). However, I have seen Indian and white couples get married, they are happy, and have children. Thats not the case for everyone, but just be safe. Talk your concerns out.
I am an Indian guy and I'll tell it to you straight up.
Indian guys (especially ones from India) do not like white girls. I'm pretty sure that this guy just wants to have you for fun or something. Just like someone else said, when it comes to the time for marriage, he's gonna leave you. In Indian Culture, we believe that Indians must only get married to Indians. I don't see many Indian-White couples for this reason. I don't recommend that he will stay with you. Indian guys and their parents are pretty serious about not marrying White girls.
Sure, first of all you need to make sure that this guy is really interested in you and is not just using you.After all, you know him better.The next thing is, if you feel he is a little conservative but you can still accept him the way he is and like him for that, then go for it. In simpler terms, culture is something that always makes a person create a wall around himself. So don't let that happen.Let him know what you feel about him. Overall, it doesn't matter which place a person is from, if you two are a thing, you have no reasons to worry. So just be yourself and honest as any guy would want you to be. Good luck!
Well, Indian guys need some what attention and are emotional characters. They are loyal and may be shy sometimes. They wish their dates could spend most of time with them so that they can know how good is she....So, u two can always opt to go on a picnic to a hill station or any other place together on a weekend and have a wonderful evening.
All The Best.
Well indian guy is just like any other guy. Does it mean if you date other guys that are not indian, they will be honest never cheat and stay loyal. Bull ****. If it doesn't work out it doesn't work out thats it. Just dont start bragging about it and believe in all the stereotype image that people potray about Indian guys.I am not saying this just because I m indian but inter racial relationships are just beautiful although sometimes they are difficult to digest!!!I wish u all the best.
Just be yourself. Don't hide anything from him. If you truly like him then be as you are. Indian guys are very particular about honesty, but they forgive also easily. Depending on the views of the guy try talking to him about different things you like and gently ask him about his choices. Don't show off or flirt with other guys if he doesn't know about them.
All the best!
Yes I do.. this desi guy will f*ck you and have all the fun with you.. when you want to settle down, he will run off to india and marry the girl whom his mom chooses... you are going to get a heartbreak... leave him now if you can...
If both of you click well and have the spark in you for each other, there is no problem.
My best wishes, have a blast.
Remember to keep the faith.
Use Condom
take bath
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