When a girl gives advice, do the opposite?

Every girl who gives advice seems to tell guys they should keep being nice guys because thats what they really want. Then a week later, the person giving advice is dating some immature guy and she keeps complaining about how immature her boyfriend is. But in reality, she loves it? So...basically girls are attracted to guys who can give them drama...true?When a girl gives advice, do the opposite?
Unfortunately this is sometimes the case.





It's called the ';rollercoaster ride.'; Girls like it because, like a rollercoaster, it's thrilling. It never gets dull and it's ALWAYS a challenge (girls tend to love a challenge). Plus, when you have to work harder to gain someone's affection, it's FORCING you to put in the effort. When you're constantly putting effort into something, it tricks your mind into thinking that you must really care about it. Because if you didn't care about it, why would you be trying so damn hard?





Some smart girls figure this out and think ';Screw this mind game!'; That's all it is -- a mind game. After years and years of dating immature losers, some of us wake up and realize that we really do want a nice guy who has his sh!t together... because frankly, we're friggin' tired of having to help someone get their sh!t together (very exhausting).





Unfortunately, being a man, you cannot rush a girl into this level of maturity (or way of thinking). She has to date all of those douche bags to finally realize that a nice guy is what's best for her. At that point in time, you'll be golden.





Stay a nice guy. There are not many of you left and some girl is going to come around and TRULY appreciate it (especially after Mr. Rollercoaster Ride took her on a twisty loop-da-loop of doom). (:When a girl gives advice, do the opposite?
Yo man every girl is different and it's not that she wants drama, its she just doesn't want a same routine. So basically every girl wants not necessarily a nice guy, but a romantic guy that can still keep the spice in the relationship. Being to nice can ruin things and being to much of a jerk will too. If you're looking for a long relationship (the girl must be too) CARING not nice is the way to go...
That person is either immature or a manipulator. I would watch out for them. Actions do speak much louder than words. Guys should keep being nice. If a girl wants to sink to lower areas, watch out...you are going to get bit by a disease. She is too easy and shallow.
hahaha no way in hell I went out with a guy for 3 months everyone was actually surprised it lasted that long because there always seemed to be a problem after problem. Now i have been going out with this new guy for 5 months now and we just seem to be perfect we never argue ...or if we do its never about anything important and i have never been happier. You probably just havent found the one girl who balances out your flaws and attributes....i hope that helps
You hit the nail on the head. If I were stereotyping, I would call it the immaturity in females, similar to the immaturity females claim in guys who want to have sex with many girls.





Often nice guys end up in the friend-zone.
K WELL I PROMISE THIS IS GOOD ADVISE...FIRST OF ALL GIRLS ARE VERY VERY VERY CONFUSING...YES IM A GIRL SO IM TELLING YOU FROM A GIRLS POINT OF VIEW. THEY DO LIKE NICE GUYS BUT NOT SO NICE. THEY LIKE IT WHEN A GUY TAKES CONTROL BUT NOT TO AGGRESSIVE. CHEEEZY THINGS ARE NICE BUT NOT TOO OFTEN. YOU HAVE TO FIND YOUR WAYS TO BALANCE THAT.
whatever ... you seem jaded... and because i am *gasp* a female you will automatically discount my advice so why should i offer it? so as you will, you seem to want to anyway.
No man do you and if they want to be with some immature dude,then let them go! Always do you and the right and hot girl will find you! I promise you!
no that is not true it is true in some girls but there just ***** but most girls are looking for true love and a nice guy
Yes, very true. If they don't have any drama then they will just say the guy is boring and move on.
NO girl likes nice guys, despite what they tell you....
no. it depends....not every women are the same.....coz when we talk about love some chose to be practical while some follow their heart..
Youre thinking too much.
If your girl friend tells you don't die. what you will do? Will you kill yourself?