Sunday, December 20, 2009

Can someone give me some girl advice?

Ok, I've liked this girl since 7th grade. I'm in 9th now. We text mostly everyday. The thing is, she knows i like here, and I'm pretty sure (90%) that she doesn't like me. I've been trying to get over here, but she is like perfect. She's beautiful, smart, funny, and I love the little things too (like her smile and way she laughs). Does anyone have any advice on how to get get over someone?Can someone give me some girl advice?
That's easyy,


1. STOP TEXTING HER ;)


%26amp; get Ur booty on the phone!


2. every girl likes a sweet, [but not corny] guy.


tell her that you like her eyes.


defend her, ask HER for advice with a family problem or something.


make her feel rllllyyy needed %26amp; importnt.


3. tell her to her face in person that you like her(:


goooood luck,Can someone give me some girl advice?
Same way with how I was, we liked each other back in 6th grade but haven't actually dated or anything. She's perfect as well, but when it hit me hard was in about 10th grade. She starting dating another guy and I couldn't seem to get over her. I want to encourage you to try to get her to like you back if you really do like her. If she doesn't, then you have to separate for a while. That means stop the texting so often, it only reminds you of her. After a few weeks or so of distancing myself, I eventually got over her. You just can't be going out of your way to talk to them if your trying to get over them, it won't work.
You text everyday, and you are 90% sure she doesn't return your feelings? hmmm? are you good at reading girls? The great news - is don't be in a hurry - you are still young and you will most likely keep running into her - Why not ask her to next big game at school? Being friends is an excellent way of getting to know someone better - and it is safe - It is awesome when you both discover that you have been in love for a long time! but I am getting ahead of myself - the only way to know what her real feelings are - is if you ask her - and tell her how you feel - it is a risk - so if you are not ready for that risk yet - then find ways that can bring you closer together - and if she responds to it favorably, you may be on to having great times and perhaps get closer - Just remember, girls are often just as shy of you as you are of them -
ok this is how you do it.... start hanging out with her alone when your alone with her this is when you need to be the perfect guy and listen to everything she says and just be perfect then later that night when you know she is tired ask her what her feelings towards you are she has to be tired because she will tell you the truth almost all the time if she says idk wich is prolly what most girls in the world say tell her that you had a crush on her a long time ago.( long time ago is important talk about a time that she will remember) then she will either say aww that is so sweet or thats weird i always thought of you as a brother the first one is what you want if she says awwwwwwwww then be like to tell you the truth i still do but dont think she is your gf just cuz she knows you like her you have to milk her until she says she likes you if she thinks of you as a brother you need to get out of that brother relationship by doing somthing realy hardcore and start this process over
Listen dude, you have three options right now.





1) Move on and start looking for someone else.





2) Go up to her and tell her you need to talk to her, then tell her that you have strong feelings for her and would like to go out with her.





3) go up to her and say these exact words ';Listen (*name*), this is something I should have done a long time ago'; then kiss her on the lips.





Number 3 takes guts; when I was your age I wouldn't have the balls to do it (with the situation your in), but to be honest with you it's probably the best way to get her to like you for many reasons. You just got to push yourself.
As much as you like the girl, it is vital that she must like you too. All you could do is be yourself and if she likes you then good if not then its ok...you are young and you will find more girls who might share more common interests as you do. Don't try to be someone you're not, just be who you are and if things happen then it will. Be kind and be a gentleman. Maybe you show her that your interested in her and girls like to play games with boys sometimes (im not misleading you, but just be aware) it might be a way for her to test you or she may really not have interest in you. Girls are very complicated and really expect you to read their minds(sometimes), but we're not mind readers. Be yourself be kind and good luck
Ask her if she would ever date a guy like you. It isnt asking her out, so it isn't getting rejected if she says she wouldn't. This is probably the only way to get over a crush like this, because then you know for sure she doesnt like you. You may be sad for a while, but it will pass. Maybe not very quickly, considering how long this has lasted, but it will pass.





Perhaps she does like you, and she says that its possible. Now you have a motive to ask her on a date, to see if you can be more than friends.





Good luck, hope i helped!





[also, anyone who reads this, please help me with my question!!!!


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k im the same age as you, and as a girl i think it would be sweet of you to just keep acting like a friend, slowly get to know her more, and who knows, it may turn into more =].





as for getting over the fact that she probably doesn't like you, just wait it out and hang in there. TRUST ME u'll get through it and it'll work out. just look around... there are tons of girls out there like her.


good luck dude.





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ya know i am having this same problem with a guy but i have only known him ten days lol.





i dont know. ask her out and if she says noo then ask out someone else and make out with them and get over it....


lol





i know that sounds bad but i think that would help me... i am truthfully thinking about having one of my best guy friends over just to make out with me so i will get over this guy.





but i dont know.


being a teenager sucks man.
Well, talk to her first and tell her how you feel. If she doesn't feel the same way, try to distance yourself from her a little, untill you get over her. Just hang out with other people at lunch every once in a while. It will take a while (I know personaly) but eventually you will get over her.
it is very hard to get over your first true crush. just occupy your thoughts about something else, like hanging out with friends, sing songs, do something that will keep your mind off of her. plus she isnt the only girl like that trust me. your only in high school, time by time youll meet someone so much better. so dont linger yourself about it
well try to find as many details as you can like and i know this sounds tough but ask how she feels about you find out if she has a boyfriend other then you or just do like the other guy said look elsewhere but hey easier said then done right
i don't think there is a way to get over someone





unless you find someone else that makes you feel that way


and they happen to like you back and you'll for sure get over the other girl






You either need to make your move or focus your attention on something else and move on.
Move on and find another girl. Just remember... you can't be nice to women. They aren't attracted to that.
There are probably 700 chicks like that.





You are in the 9th grade.


You're what? 13?





Don't waste your time on someone who doesn't deserve it.
You should like get one of your friends to see if she likes you backk. and if nott then just become good friends with her :)
Why not just ask her out, sounds like you really like her
!do not think about that someone!!!
think of her with pimples!
time is all





:(
just look for another girl there are tons of girls out there that like u

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