I've been seeing this girl for a few weeks and things got serious very early on. I don't have any experience when it comes to having a girlfriend, but I would really like to keep this girl around. I like her, and as far as I can tell she likes me. I think its too early to ask her to be my girlfriend, but what are some things I can do to make her feel like I'm her boyfriend so that eventually it will just happen?Can someone lend me some good advice for my girl troubles?
Why is it too early? When you come to the decision that you want her as part of your life, and you don't want to be dating other women, I'd say that's the perfect time. Just tell her that you think she is amazing and you aren't interested in seeing anyone else, and you'd like to be able to say she is your girlfriend. Well, actually she probably already is your girlfriend :PCan someone lend me some good advice for my girl troubles?
If you like her and she likes you, does anything need to be said?
If you genuinely care about her - act that way and most importantly respect her.
What you are asking is how to be her ';only guy';. Just remember that with being a boyfriend comes a truck load of problems and distractions for both of you.
Leave the relationship and yourselves unlabeld - it takes pressure off both of you, and you can still enjoy each other's company but without the added pressure of the roles and expectations that boyfriend/girlfriend labels always seem to require.
Hope this helps :-)
Wait, so you guys are like going out cuz you are seeing each other but not bf/gf? wow, and for a few weeks too. Why don't you take her on a romantic date (and i mean romantic for her) and when the mood is right ask her to be your girlfriend. Just don't ask at a stupid time, read the mood. I think she wants you to ask her to be your girlfriend, cuz if i liked a guy I'd want to be his girlfriend, otherwise I'd just stop hanging out with him.
It's serious, but you're not officially together? I guess you mean serious in a sexual way then.
Keep spending time together and getting to know each other. Things should happen naturally. However, if you get a sense that she would like a commitment, and you want the same, just go for it. I'm not saying rush things, but you needn't waste time either.
im sorry i dont no, and i swear i dont like answering questions if i dont no and it not for the points but can you plzzz answer my question? im really srry i dont no, well, i like the flower idea except throw in a box of chocolate. :)
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Just make sure she knows that you're not seeing anyone else. If she's only seeing you, she's into you. If you can see it lasting long-term, just be straight with her. She'll appreciate the honesty and the fact that you were confident enough to bring it up.
Take her on individual as well as group dates %26amp; take it slow. Don't be shy to do little things like pull out her chair for her or brush her hair away from her face or talk to her in a low voice.
show her you care.
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ask her does she like n e body @ the moment but dont make it seem like you like her. he she act all shy n stuff its u so just ask her out
I think you should send her flowers, and it say ';Can I be your Boyfriend?'; I think that would be cute
Call her, text her. Let her know you care about her.
help her when she needs it and ask to hang out
Well first of all, don't EVER let her doubt that you like her. Always let her know how much you care about her. Protect her, but don't be over protective, always show her how you care, but don't be clingy.
AND here is THE most important, be a gentleman. DO NOT act different around other guys when your with her, be sweet, sincere and HONEST, and don't play games or '; the game '; with her head. It will only make her become more distant. Also, as I said before be a gentle man, always offer to pay when you guys go out, treat her with respect as well as yourself, open the door for her whenever you guys are together open the door, hold it open for her and let her go in first. Give her your coat or sweater if she looks or says she's cold, if you don't have one, hold her. ALWAYS call her beautiful or gorgeous, and sometimes if you guys are just looking at her tell her she's beautiful, especially when she says she looks like **** or feels likes ****. If she texts you or calls you always text her back, if it takes you forever to do that apologize and tell her why you didn't, and be honest, don't make up a story. Just in all make sure she's aware of how much you care for her, and never look at other girls, she should be the only girl that you have eyes for, don't act like an *** with your friends and talk about her like she's a piece of meat, your friends should understand that she's your girl and she's a part of your life now.
GARUNTEED if you do this, you will win her heart, but be sincere.
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