Tuesday, April 27, 2010

16 and need some girl advice?

Ok well it's hard because we are not going out. She suggested that we hang out at her house or mine. So I am just lost because I don't know if she wants anything more than to be my friend. But I need some ideas of what we can do. I have known this girl my whole life and shes always been something special to me, we went out with each other back in like 4th grade but that was kiddie relationships. Anyone help?16 and need some girl advice?
OMG! RUN!!!!!!!!!!!! She wants to tie you down, put her brand on your a$$, have your babies, and RUIN YOUR LIFE!








not!


You need to lighten up.16 and need some girl advice?
Well, im gussing she is kinda on the edge. Meaning shes not sure yet she kinda flirts and wants to hang out but the other side doesnt. I do that all the time


But if you like her and want her ot like you back then give her a sighn.


Talk to her a lot walk to class with her give her lots of hugs and try to hang out as much as possible


if you dont then do the exact opposite you can still hang out but dont as much
Go over to her house and watch a movie, pop some popcorn and have some soda. It should be a funny movie, so you can laugh, look at each other in amazement, giggle, etc. See if you can sit close and tickle each other or hold hands (may be too soon). She seems open to you and your friendship, so see if you can get her to like you again. Good luck
Well, if you DO ask her out... um my friend asked me out and i was in the middle of a story, caught way off guard. Don't do that, lol, let her talk. Don't make her feel pressured either, like bring up something that happened earlier that day or something funny. Just relax and if she invited you over, i think she probably likes you, too. Be confident and relaxed :) don't over-do it either, it's not a big deal if she says no and let her know that so it's less pressure on her
Well, do you really like this girl ? Does she flirt with you at all ? Do you see any kind of signs that she can be giving you telling you that she likes you ? If so, then just tell her how you feel about her and that you want to be more than friends. If she doesn't accept, then at least you can say that you tried or don't give up and hopefully she'll give you a chance with her.





Hope I help !!!





Joseph D : )
What kind of girl is she? You could play video games, go outside and kick around a soccerball, listen to music, etc etc etc. Think about her personality and what she likes to do. If you like, ask her out or tell her how you feel. Don't mess it up and make it awkward for the rest of the time you hang out.
If you have known eachother that long, getting to a friend level isnt needed. Tell her how you feel. lay it out right infront of her, and if she feels the same way she wont be afraid to tell you. Most girls are afraid of being rejected. so you should definitely tell her how you feel and she will feel more comfortable talking with you about it.
Well if you like her.. tell her!! if you guys dont usually hang out, I would think she likes you as more than a friend. But if you usually do, then I really have no idea. If your old enough, if you tell her you like her, it wont ruin the relationship but girls like it if a guy tells them if they like her.
You should just tell her or ask her if she's looking for a guy. As for things to do try fun things like the movies, maybe some lunch on a Saturday, try the beach, go bowling, play pool if you like it. You know just normal things that friends can do and will help you bond and become closer. Hope I helped. Good Luck!!!
That is hard.... you're going to at some point have to tell her. Because honestly, you can't hide your feelings and ignore it like it's not there. Theres nothing much you can do but tell her because this wasn't like you choose to like her, it just kind of happened.
Try to enjoy the time together in the moment. It doesn't have to ';be'; anything. Girls (everyone) loves to know that the person they are with is enjoying their company. If you are yourself, the rest will fall into place.
i say tell her how you feel and ask her if she wants a relationship or not but if you like her totally go out with her i mean whats stopping you? if you like being with her you should totally go for it !!! :D Good luck!
i'd say, just come clean %26amp; tell her about it . and ask her if she feels the same way. cause i think its better to let someone know or have the other person questioning %26amp; wondering if they feel the same way or not. but hey, its just me . (:
ask her what you are to her. tell her that she is something special to you. be assertive. girls love that.
hang out at her house. that way she will have to play hostess and she can decide what u guys actually do. the way she acts will give you more to go off of
well, if she liked you once, she probably still likes you. I have dated the same guy like 3 times, once when i was 12, when i was 13 and now when i am 19...
Just Tell Her How You Feel. And Maybe Before You Start You Can Say ';I Don't Want Anything I'm Going To Say In The Next Few Minutes To Effect Our Friendship.';
well maybe you guys can go on a walk or something; you could always try to casually bring it up in conversation.
Well, flirt with her, and kind of casually touch her... CASUALLY though.. and see how she reacts... you'll know after that...
lik hang out or date?


if hang out play video games


or if it's a date, watch movies


;)
she probably wants more than friendship if she wants to hang out with you at her house or your house. good luck
Show up at her house in a Speedo.
Well if you like her tell her...Don't be shy...
jus ask her wat she wants be playful n cuddly if she likes that then she wants more
well hang out with her and see wat she dose maby it will go in your faver
Bone her dude.. thats all i can say its a sign from god showin u he wants u to bone this girls brains out.. good luck
well what is that you want?
aww... well I think that you should talk to her about it...
Invite her over to your house! Entertain her. If you want to show her that you're a fun guy, don't rely on her to come up with the plans. This is what I would do:





1) Find a recipe for a casserole on the internet the night before. Read it over very well so you won't screw it up tomorrow. Make a list of all the ingredients you need to buy from the store. If you already have some of them at home, make sure you know where they are before she comes over.





2) After school the next day, take her to the movie store. She'll probably tell you whatever you want will be fine. Get a romantic comedy, nothing with guns or violence. Make sure she hasn't seen it yet.





3) Go to the grocery store and buy the ingredients from your list. You'll probably want a salad so get salad ingredients and some French bread, too. Don't forget popcorn or ice cream to eat during the movie!





4) Take her home and make your supper! Make the casserole first. Ask her to help make the salad or read to you the next step in the recipe (even though you should already know it from the night before!). You can try flirting with her by feeding her a bite of chopped cucumber or putting a dallop of food on her nose. Don't go overboard and whatever you do, don't spray her with the sink sprayer!!! She will not think it's funny!!!





5) Don't forget to set the timer and put it in a place where you will hear it go off. While it cooks, take her to your room, show her pictures of you on your last trip, show her your newest CD, ask her what she thinks about a teacher you both have, etc.





6) Eat!





7) Eat ice cream or popcorn while watching movie.





8) Take her home. Ask her if she'd like to do it again.

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