Cute girl in office. What to do? Advice please girls?

There's a really cute girl in the office where I work (one floor down). I see her nearly every day as my dept deals with hers. I really want to ask her out but don't know how to approach her. I have no idea if she's single either. I thought about getting her a little something (gift/flower etc?) so it would be a conversation starter. What are your thoughts?


Is e-mailing her to ask okay, or is that a no-no?Cute girl in office. What to do? Advice please girls?
Hey dude, the bane of my existence has been solving this problem.





You're going to have to play this one cool...





First, don't send her a gift/flowers. Every single guy that is not with her right now has done that before. Don't be like every guy she does not want to date. Don't email. If you don't have the guts to talk to her directly the first time, why would she go out with you on a date, in person? Man up.





Secondly, you're going to have to create a situation to ';run into her.'; No, not something outlandish like in the movie ';Hitch,'; but recognize where she is at certain times and have an excuse (ex. She goes for a coffee break at X time, so you go for yours at that same time). When you do meet, don't be nervous and for god sake don't ';be yourself,'; you have to be confident and right now you're not confident, sorry. Say anything that will open up a conversation besides ';I like you, or hi my name is.'; If you introduce yourself like that she will think you have an agenda and are the creepy guy of the office. Just say something like you would to a co-worker, make her comfortable in your precense. She'll intuitively know you like her anyway, it's girl radar. After she responds, say something that makes her laugh. If she laughs your halfway there. I don't know a woman that doesn't like a guy that can make her laugh, and if she laughs she is interested enough that she'll keep talking to you, regardless if she is single or not.





Get a little conversation going for 5 minutes or so, if you can. If you can't you're going to have to go through this whole process again at another time. Don't ask her out after knowing her one minute because she has no clue who you are as a person. Chances are that she probably will have work or other priorities so BE COOL. She isn't going anywhere. But don't become her buddy-buddy friend either. Be a man, you have an interest in her beyond friends, so don't let a conversation become to drawn out into a friend thing. Remember, you're important and busy with lots important stuff to do; she'll respect that more than a needy guy who lurks forever.





K, whether it be the first time or the third time you talk to her, you'll get a little convo going, then ask her to join you for lunch or a drink after work or something congruent that is casual. Don't propose that you go to the moon together on the weekend. Why would anybody take a stranger they don't know to the moon? A coffee is casual, non-threatening, and she won't have to worry about it being intense and awkward. She's went on a million awkward, interview style dinner dates, so don't be one million and one.





So ya, make yourself known, make yourself a non-creepy guy, move the interaction beyond your everyday workspace, and your off and running. Then start being yourself.





Oh ya... If she isn't single, BIG HORNY DEAL. She'll say ';I got a bf/husband'; and you can find another girl instead of putting yourself through mental anguish. She isn't going to laugh at you, she'll probably just be flattered, and if you're sincere you have nothing to be ashamed of.





Good Luck.Cute girl in office. What to do? Advice please girls?
You need to find out if she is single first - you need to enlist the help of a female in your dept to befriend her and get the info you need. I wouldn't get her a gift that might seem a bit weird. Just start chatting everytime you see her then start e-mailing her your forward jokes and stuff along with the other people you normally do and gradually she will become a workmate then you can start the flirting. It's gonna take time and a bit of investigation work!!
Ask her if you can use her phone and then suddenly ';remember' that you left behind the number you had written down, that will break the ice and then you can ask her her name and can talk to her each time you see her from then on. If if still feels right, have a go.
Definitely don't email her, and don't bring her a gift before you get to know her.








You're just going to have to approach her and start up a conversation. Any other way and you'll seem shy and come off as having no self confidence.
don't start relationship at work. but if u insist, then find out if she's single first. go up to her and have a conversation and ask what she's doing on the weeknd or soemthing, and you can ask her indirectly if she has bf. if not ask her out why not?
Make a conversation with her,,,then near the end say,,we should go out sometimes..


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