What do i say to her that can calm her down about feeling awkward and make her get over the awkward issue? desperate for advice!Need advice on bringing this girl to a wedding?
This is a toughy man, I've had similar situations myself.... what I did was basically tell her that hey, no matter where you go or what you do in life, this is eventually going to happen, you're going to have to meet family or people you've never met before and yeah, it's going to be a little akward, but once you know everyone, that akward will be over and it'll all be good. Plus you can mention hey, it's a wedding, everyone will be focused on the family and bride and groom, no worries..... There are a lot of different responses you could get for this, but this is just something i'm throwing on the table for ya to think over.........good luck manNeed advice on bringing this girl to a wedding?
I recommend that you try to clarify just what specifically causes her such uneasiness about this. You can reassure her that it will be a nice, pleasant function and that she will be quite welcome. Be sure to ask her what she fears might happen and focus your attention around putting her mind at ease.
If she's resistant despite your effort to encourage her to join her, perhaps she's genuinely not interested in going with you, in which case you may just wish to leave her be and invite another young lady.
Good luck to you and congratulations to you on your sister's wedding.
She is correct. She will meet 100's of people that she will never see again and you will have family responsibilities to attend to. Itbwill be very boring for her.
Perhaps you could introduce her to some of your family before the wedding. She will at least know a few people and that would help.
why bring a girl to a wedding? that is like bringing sand to a beach.
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