Do you have any advice on some techniques on asking a girl out?

I am 20 years old and I have been rejected by a total of five girls. I talk a lot, I am polite and friendly, and I treat others the way I want to be treated. However, I just asked a girl out recently and she said I like as a friend only. No problem. However, I have never dated in my life, so I was just wondering if anybody had some techniques on asking the right girl out, communication, etc.Do you have any advice on some techniques on asking a girl out?
I've rejected over a dozen guys in my lifetime. Most of those guys weren't unattractive...they just asked at the wrong time.


Make sure the girls you're going for aren't taken.Give it some time before asking a girl out. If you've known someone for a week, asking them to be your gf comes across as desperate.


Don't be clingy. Don't call every single day. Make the girl show you that she's interested... ';Me and my friends are seeing a movie tomorrow night. Call me if you want to go.'; Don't be too sweet or too respectful. A lot of girls like to be treated like a friend, not some porcelain doll.


Find out what the girl likes to do. If she likes music, buy tickets to a concert. If she hates football, don't take her to the Cowboys game.


Good luck.Do you have any advice on some techniques on asking a girl out?
First, have a confidence on yourself, maybe if you talk less, cuz girls like to go out with boys that would listen more, and talk less. Then maybe you can start with going out on a group date, find out what she likes to do or what makes her happy when she's having a bad day.


Ask for her number and if she ask you why, so you can call her just to make sure that she's having a good day
maybe it isn't how you ask them out. If you don't drop some hints that you like them, asking them out would be out of the blue for them. but if you give them hints[[and they are smart enough to pick them up]] they might be ready for it and would probably know the answer when you ask them. It could also be that if you don't drop those hints they might not even think that you like them so don't even give a second thought on whether you guys should go out and therefore won't develop any deeper feelings.
Maybe you are going for the wrong girls. When you are out with girls, don't just talk about yourself. Make sure you ask the girls about theirself. And listen to them, see what you have in common with them. If you do have a shared interest, talk about it, try and set up a date or another get together that is based around that shared interest. Ie. If you both like baseball, go to the batting cages or something.





Goodluck, and dont give up.
It's not HOW you ask the girl out. It's all about creating attraction between the two of you in the first place so that she would want to go out with you. That's a much harder question to answer. You just have to learn from your mistakes. Go online to websites that give guys advice on girls then try stuff out.
Just be yourself and everything will fall into place the way you wanted it to be. Women will love you for who you are and the goodness that they see in you. Don't rush, there's always that one girl destined for you. :D


Well, I guess you need some tactics like this in order to win a woman's heart:


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be confident, dont be looking to please her, she should work to please you. dont talk so much, let her do most of the talking. the more you get them talking with you, the better your chances will be. so ask questions (not interrogation though), listen well and let the convo flow. add some humor and ur set.
only 5?


and ur 20?


what do u live underground or something?








ASK MORE PPL!!!


just make HEAPS of friends and start with ';hey u wana catch a movie with me this wknd?'; or ';hey theres a ___ %26lt;--- [band name] concert soon, we could go together!?';


be creative, dont say ';do u wana go out?'; coz then u will sound like you're twelve.





if u get rejected, move on. STAY AWAY FROM POPULAR GIRLS they will **** you up. try a nice intelligent brunette who doesnt know how hot she is.





I'm only 17 so my answer may not count for much.


but I have been rejected by atleast 30 cute brunettes %26lt;-- my fav type u see.





but I have also had a few really good relationships. REALLY GOOD.





I finish with a quote from shakespeare:


';love moderately, long love doth so...';
r u ugly


i am Just kidding that seems to be what evey one is answering with now


ok here is my advice be natural be ur self and don't use pick up lines and try to make it short and to the point


good luck u will find someone u seem very sweet
Don't worry so much about asking them out. You just need to be somewhat flirtatious with them, make them curious about you, and then they'll want to go out with you.
When you met a girl you think you may like do not approch her like you would a new friend. im not saying be an *** lol but draw a line!
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