Any advice for a girl who wants to make the first move?

So are there any techniques, tips, ideas as to HOW I can make the first move and what to do/say?Any advice for a girl who wants to make the first move?
In person is always the best. With that established, you should think about making sure the guy you want to ask is alone, or ask to speak with him (if his friends make barn noises or snood remarks, ignore them) Once alone with him, just feel out the situation. You can tell him you like him, and you want to get to know him better and compliment him is always a good idea. Just don't tell him you love him, or have feelings for him for the past whatever years. If he asks then tell him what you think is best, you not looking to marry this guy yet, you just want to get to know him and go from there. Most guys don't know if they are good looking, the guys that think they are are either players, idiots, or just in it for the sex. I'm not saying good looking guys are like that, its just you have to be very careful and cautious around guys that brag about it, and you know they aren't joking.





I had a girl come up to me my senior year in High School and say she had a crush on me for the last fours years. Nothing developed but it made me realize that all the FEAR I had that I was not liked or wasn't attractive merely vanished and within time I was able to talk with women and be a more comfortable around them.





Make sure you like him because of his personality too, regardless of how ';Hot'; he is, because in a realtionship you want to be able to have fun and go places together and do things, and you don't want him to sit and be bored, nor you don't want to be bored out of your mind.





Even balance is key in a relationship.





-wakeupwalt